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DStuntz
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 Posted: Tue Nov 18, 2003 7:00 am Post subject: Childless relationship with a Russian woman |
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Having children is not for everyone, and due to getting a late start in life and other personal circumstances, I prefer to meet a woman (whethar its for a short-term or long-term relationship, or marriage) who is not interested in having children. I am not ready (and may never be in this life time) to take on the responsibility of fatherhood. However, it almost seems like all Russian women (or women from another FSU nation) seem to want to have children. It is not clear to me yet if there is such a woman as one from Russia/FSU who is interested in a childless relationship. In your opinion, how rare or common is it? Do you think that I would stand a chance of ever finding a Russian/FSU woman who is interested in a childless relationship? I would greatly appreciate a response.
PS. I prefer Russian or FSU women, because they seem appreciative and sincere. I don't seem to have enough status or glamour to get far with American women. |
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Finding a Russian woman that wants a childless relationship, well, the chances are the same as anywhere else. I am married to a Russian lady, and we have a childless relationship. We met in 1993, and were married just two years ago. Before we were married we discussed children, of which I wanted no more, since I already had three from a previous marriage. She wanted them at the time, but new it would never happen with me. She has excepted this, and we have had no conflicts because of it. I also had a vasectomy to make sure there would be no little accidents. Now her mother and father would really like to have some grandchildren, but it will never happen. I think if you have the time to work on a relationship with a Russian lady chances are you will find someone who will be excepting of a childless marriage, etc....
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Miami
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I believe all women want to have children deep down in their hearts, just as all men would like to have children with their wives. It's just a basic human instinct that's all. That's how the species Homo sapiens and all other animal species have survived and their populations grown. They are internally "hard-wired" to reproduce.  |
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Fire_Goddess
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| I dont understand it, you are unwilling to commit yourself to fatherhood, but you are some how ready to commit yourself to marriage? It would be better for you to hook up with a career minded woman from the west. I dont think it is fair to deprive a woman of her desire to have children, just because you would prefer a more "appreciative and sincere" kind of woman. Why would any woman appreciate the fact that a guy doesnt want kids, unless she did not want them? Sounds kind of selfish to me. I am all for people who do not want or need kids, because I am one of those people, ive never and will never understand the need in some people to have children in order to make their lives some how "complete". But I would never knowingly search for a man who comes from a country where having a family is such a big thing. What would you really be offering these ladies? |
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Rick
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Location: Касабланка
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| Guys, cut it! This is a topic dating back to neolithic times! Look at the dates for f***'s sake! |
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Miami
WayToRussified
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| Rick wrote: | | Guys, cut it! This is a topic dating back to neolithic times! Look at the dates for f***'s sake! |
Still, it is interesting subject matter. |
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Fire_Goddess
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OH MY GOD  SORRY! |
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tuller
Talk Show Host
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| Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 3:33 am Post subject: Ah! Children |
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Children, they are the pure roots of our personal lives, the joys of our hearts, and the futures of our countries.
With three grown American daughters and twin 10 year old Russian daughters inherited with a marriage to a Russian lady...I could never imagine a childless marriage, not could my Russian wife.
I know many young Russian girls and older Russian ladies...the ones that have children will tell you they are their hearts, the ones that haven't children will tell a man she's not interested in a relationship with him without the creation of children together.
My wife and I recently discussed our "older years" together...we were both in agreement that it would be boring and almost useless without our children and grand children to have around us.
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vitalsigns
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| What if it is too late for some women to have children, what's then? Miserable lives of two lonely individuals? Oh, no my friend! Children or no children life is beautiful all by itself. Everyone creates his/her own world around them. Thank God that you have children, they are God's gift but do not look down upon those who do no have them. |
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Kesha
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Find yourself a nice capitalistic American or English woman in her mid to late 40's!
No worries there mate! |
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tuller
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| Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 7:14 am Post subject: Looking down |
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I look down at no one, not even my ex-wife with her corrupted values 
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Agflit
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Location: The snowey Midwest
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| tuller... ur a trip lol |
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