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Kathe · Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 9:45 am Post subject: Amazing Russian Man

I am brand new here-

But I saw a few posts, and I wish to comment on the "Cold Russian Man", or "Russian Men are Brutal" Myth.

My Beloved is Russian. I am an American. He was born and raised in Russia and spent the first 30-odd years of his life there.

He is, without question simply the most amazing Man I have ever met. Can he be "stoic" ? Oh, course, with strangers.

Can he be intolerant? He wants the bottom line-skip all the details.

BUT-he is warm, loving, and completely open with me. Affectionate, physically affectionate, patient, and always, ALWAYS concerned about my feelings. He adores the kids, and Grandkids.

He calls me his "Momma Bear", and he is my adored "Poppa Bear".

He told me from day one "I am not your Father, nor your Master. I am not your boss, or your Brother......I am your Man".

And, he is......

So, this upper-Middle Class spoiled American Princess, who was part of the "Pepsi-Generation", is deeply in love with a Russian man who calls me his "Goddess".

Do not ever make the mistake of thinking he is any sort of a wimp. He has no problem using his fists on those who make that mistake.

Oh, and who the heck said Russian men can be cold in bed?

Holy Cr@P! You kidding me???

I can hardly keep up!

Too much info?

*chuckles*

Fire_Goddess · Guest

Oh Lord!

mediashark · Moderator Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 1601

But I think she's right for most part! Confused

MrSpice · Lounge Wizard Joined: 14 Jul 2003 Posts: 3436

Kathe: This is a nice story, but it does not prove or explain anything since it's very subjective. I don't think anyone doubts that there are countless russian men that are warm and affectionate. When people discuss russian character, they are talking about most people in general. Also, you are under a cloud of love at the moment. How long have you been together?

Mr Purves · Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 1:15 am Post subject:

Mr Spice:

You come across in the majority of your posts as a very cynical guy. I wonder if you have ever found real love....

MrSpice · Lounge Wizard Joined: 14 Jul 2003 Posts: 3436

Mr Purves:
2 points:
1) I don't mind being perceived as cynical. I am cynical in many ways
2) Yes, I have found a real love - she is my wife and I do love her.

SPQR · Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 9:44 am Post subject:

"Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disappointment, it is as perennial as the grass."
-Desiderata

How many people here would agree?

Dowling · Frequent Guest Joined: 17 Feb 2006 Posts: 67 Location: UK

Whilst it would be true to say that you should never be cynical about love it should be understood that there is a difference betwen that and someone's 'account' of love, and I'm afraid I would have to agree with Mr Spice here in that Kathe does seem completely head over heels, and whilst I wish her all the best, and forgive me for saying so, but she is almost to the point of over doing it.

Crabman · Posted: Fri Feb 24, 2006 6:32 pm Post subject:

The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it. -George Bernard Shaw

Dowling · Frequent Guest Joined: 17 Feb 2006 Posts: 67 Location: UK

Beautifully said, Crabman..

and if you were trying to prove me wrong you actually proved me right, so thank you.

Fire_Goddess · Guest

It seems you guys are jealous!

vitalsigns · Lounge Wizard Joined: 25 Dec 2004 Posts: 2784

Rusian guys are too good to be true. I am one of those....

Rick · Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2006 9:52 pm Post subject:

Dowling & Fire_G: Your conversation is moved here:
http://www.waytorussia.net/TalkLounge/viewtopic.php?t=5233

You could use PM instead....

Jade · Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 12:17 am Post subject: Re: Amazing Russian Man

"Oh, and who the heck said Russian men can be cold in bed?"

Yeahh, who said so ??? Evil or Very Mad

I would say, they are a little .....hmmm...less creative Embarassed

"BUT-he is warm, loving, and completely open with me. Affectionate, physically affectionate, patient, and always, ALWAYS concerned about my feelings. He adores the kids, and Grandkids.

He calls me his "Momma Bear", and he is my adored "Poppa Bear".

He told me from day one "I am not your Father, nor your Master. I am not your boss, or your Brother......I am your Man".

Sounds like he has a good reason to impress you...

Kathe

I am not a "girl", I am a Woman well into my 40's. And, yes, I am crazy about him.

I am not so foolish as to think he is like "all" Russian Men, just as I cannot speak for all American Woman.

As to being "imaginitive" in our intimate moments-I myself was rather "experienced" (or so I thought) but our private life is filled with rewarding experiences. Truth be told, each time is wonderful and exciting.

Boring never enters into the picture.

The stars in my eyes, do not keep me from seeing the reality of who and what he is. Is he human? you bet! Do I make excuses for him? Not a chance, he is a grown Man, he can take responsibility for his own actions.

I have simply found the Man who brings out the best in me. Better yet, we bring out the best , in US. Very Happy

Do I love him because he is Russian? No, nor do I love him despite his being Russian. Russian is simply what he is.

He has brought culture, and experince to my life. And we complete each other.