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Yuri-s-Girl
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| Markus wrote: | | krasatulya wrote: |
Holly: I mean, you know why she's marrying him, don't you?
Robbie: The money thing? Security? A nice house? I guess that's important to some people.
Holly: No, it's not important to some people, Robbie. It's important to ALL people.
Robbie: Really? Well, then I guess I'm in big trouble.
From The Wedding Singer |
A question then. If, let's say, you had a choice between a young stud who loves you with all his heart but is rather poor or a canadian geezer who is rich and would shower you with money and gifts, what would you choose? |
Hmmmm, well my boyfriend is younger than an old geezer, poor and he's very studly so I made my choice there, love over money.
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yorbcbud
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Location: Сорренто, Британская Колумбия, Канада
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| Yuri's Girl wrote: |
Hmmmm, well my boyfriend is younger than an old geezer, poor and he's very studly so I made my choice there, love over money.
YG |
Vitali asks these questions, because he wants to live vicariously through the people who have real lives.  |
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jo-jo-7
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| yorbcbud wrote: | | Yuri's Girl wrote: |
Hmmmm, well my boyfriend is younger than an old geezer, poor and he's very studly so I made my choice there, love over money.
YG |
Vitali asks these questions, because he wants to live vicariously through the people who have real lives. |
He already lives vicariously....  |
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surfguy
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| Well the key to any relationship is to go into it accepting the person for who they are and not thinking that they will change or we can Change them. Money is not happiness but it sure helps...looks are wonderful and it's best to be with the person who is infact our fantasy...but too couples need to have the same goals and values. We need to know what are needs and limits are and find the person who fits in those and too we need to be able to compromise and find a balance...really relationships are doomed when there is an imbalance |
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MrSpice
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| surfguy wrote: | | Well the key to any relationship is to go into it accepting the person for who they are and not thinking that they will change or we can Change them. Money is not happiness but it sure helps...looks are wonderful and it's best to be with the person who is infact our fantasy...but too couples need to have the same goals and values. We need to know what are needs and limits are and find the person who fits in those and too we need to be able to compromise and find a balance...really relationships are doomed when there is an imbalance |
There are plenty of wonderful and happy couples that have different incomes. |
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surfguy
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| MrSpice wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | Well the key to any relationship is to go into it accepting the person for who they are and not thinking that they will change or we can Change them. Money is not happiness but it sure helps...looks are wonderful and it's best to be with the person who is infact our fantasy...but too couples need to have the same goals and values. We need to know what are needs and limits are and find the person who fits in those and too we need to be able to compromise and find a balance...really relationships are doomed when there is an imbalance |
There are plenty of wonderful and happy couples that have different incomes. |
true...and they balnce them out in other terms and means. |
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Markus
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| Yuri's Girl wrote: | I made my choice there, love over money.
YG |
You will be sorta miserable for the rest of your days.
If you or your boyfriend do not see a point in making good money you will live like hippies in a bus thinking you are so great and blessed to have it the "original way".
Seriously, tell your boyfriend to get lost or to start making tons of money. |
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surfguy
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| money isn't the key to happiness but it sure helps...when you are young and creating...it's not as important than when you are older and it becomes survival...Couple need money to survive...it keeps the stress levels down when you have it. Raises them when you don't. But of course you will want your boy friend to provide eventually |
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Markus
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| surfguy wrote: | | But of course you will want your boy friend to provide eventually |
Not eventually, now! Look at female immigrants who crawl in and out on this forum. They act like total witches. Why? Because they are broke. They married losers who couldn't find anyone out of their own country so now they bitch day in and day out: "We need more money, we need more money, we need more money. When are you gonna be like a man and make more money... I thought you would make my life happy..." On and on.
Do not be like that, innocent girl. Marry a rich guy, not a broke russian dude. |
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surfguy
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| Markus wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | But of course you will want your boy friend to provide eventually |
Not eventually, now! Look at female immigrants who crawl in and out on this forum. They act like total witches. Why? Because they are broke. They married losers who couldn't find anyone out of their own country so now they bitch day in and day out: "We need more money, we need more money, we need more money. When are you gonna be like a man and make more money... I thought you would make my life happy..." On and on.
Do not be like that, innocent girl. Marry a rich guy, not a broke russian dude. |
nobody can make someone else happy...we can only help. |
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MrSpice
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| Markus wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | But of course you will want your boy friend to provide eventually |
Not eventually, now! Look at female immigrants who crawl in and out on this forum. They act like total witches. Why? Because they are broke. They married losers who couldn't find anyone out of their own country so now they bitch day in and day out: "We need more money, we need more money, we need more money. When are you gonna be like a man and make more money... I thought you would make my life happy..." On and on.
Do not be like that, innocent girl. Marry a rich guy, not a broke russian dude. |
Markus - you always simplify and exaggerate. Who are you talking about exactly? I have not seen any female immigrants on this forum lately. |
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Markus
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| MrSpice wrote: | | Markus - you always simplify and exaggerate. Who are you talking about exactly? I have not seen any female immigrants on this forum lately. |
True, I do exaggerate. I remember there were one or two in the past. After all I've been on and off on this board for a while now. |
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