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shah
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 Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:03 pm Post subject: russian girlfriend |
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Hi Everyone,
Currently, i'm in a relationship with a russian woman, we have been together for 3years now, Unfortunately we seldom meet each other, only once a year. After coming back from korea recently on the 12 of July 2007, she's decided that its best for us just to be best friend. The only reason she gave me was that, she fall in love with another man (i guess russian man) I tried to contact her,but she won't respond, when i sms her that i'm goin to russia, she replied. "Don't come here, you won't see me." & she tried to avoid me by all means no matter how hard I tried to contact her. But I always saw her online & she never even switch off her mobile phone. If she really don't want to have any relationship with me, she can delete my contact & change her mobile number. What should i do and what's your advised? Follow my heart and try to save our relationships or just let it go. To be honest, i love her and i thought of tide a knot.
Thank you..
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jo-jo-7
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| Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:45 pm Post subject: Re: russian girlfriend |
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| shah wrote: | Hi Everyone,
I would like to share my life with you. Currently, i been relationships with russian women for 3years. We seldom see each other only for ones a year. After 3yrs in relationships, she's decide, for us to be best friend. The reason, she fall in love with other man (i guess russian man) I try to contact her, she won't respond, when i sms her that i'm goin to russia, she replied. Don't come here, you won't see me. She try avoid me. What should i do and what's your advised? Follow my heart and try to save our relationships or just let it go. To be honest, i love her and i thought of tide a knot.
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Your post is not real clear on how "long" you have actually spent time with this girl for the past 3 years' but in any case, I wouldn't go over and try to get her back since she is in love with someone else. Clearly, avoiding your messages is a hint that she wants to move on with her life. I would just let it go because it shows as if she is truly staying away. You don't want to go over there and see her with someone else and be hurt. That is a long trip back home with that in your mind. After reading your post it is clear that she wants friendship only and when a woman only wants to just be friends then she means it. Take my word for it. Woman who are in love will clearly let you know by telling you and she is not going to avoid you. Women don't just don't walk away from someone they love unless it is an abusive relationship, then sometimes that takes several attempts with that also. I would not go follow your heart with someone who has avoided you especially after she said, "don't come here, you won't see me". That is very clear. I hope this helps.
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surfguy
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IT'S OVER
...but there are plenty of fish in the sea and as hard as it is, it's best to move on |
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Fire_Goddess
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| Well I dont fault her for not wanting a long distance relationship. But I wonder if you were sending her any money during this time, and whether or not she has been seeing this other guy for quite some time, before informing you. Either way, a woman who loves a man isnt going to avoid him, so cut your losses. By the way 3 years is a long time to string someone along in another country without a marriage proposal. |
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Yuri-s-Girl
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That's a shame but she's spelled it out pretty clear by saying she doesn't want to see you, fell in love with another man, etc.
Good luck with finding someone new, eventually of course, when your ready.
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Daria
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| Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 11:05 pm Post subject: Re: russian girlfriend |
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| shah wrote: | Hi Everyone,
I would like to share my life with you. Currently, i been relationships with russian women for 3years. We seldom see each other only for ones a year. After 3yrs in relationships, she's decide, for us to be best friend. The reason, she fall in love with other man (i guess russian man) I try to contact her, she won't respond, when i sms her that i'm goin to russia, she replied. Don't come here, you won't see me. She try avoid me. What should i do and what's your advised? Follow my heart and try to save our relationships or just let it go. To be honest, i love her and i thought of tide a knot.
Thank you.. |
If a woman says, "do not come here", she usually means,"don't come".
It's hard to give an advice here, Shah. After all, it's only one side of the story. |
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MrSpice
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| Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 2:58 am Post subject: Re: russian girlfriend |
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| shah wrote: | Hi Everyone,
I would like to share my life with you. Currently, i been relationships with russian women for 3years. We seldom see each other only for ones a year. After 3yrs in relationships, she's decide, for us to be best friend. The reason, she fall in love with other man (i guess russian man) I try to contact her, she won't respond, when i sms her that i'm goin to russia, she replied. Don't come here, you won't see me. She try avoid me. What should i do and what's your advised? Follow my heart and try to save our relationships or just let it go. To be honest, i love her and i thought of tide a knot.
Thank you.. |
I would start with learning some decent English - you cannot spell at all. Where are you from? |
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jo-jo-7
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| Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 4:02 am Post subject: Re: russian girlfriend |
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| MrSpice wrote: | | shah wrote: | Hi Everyone,
I would like to share my life with you. Currently, i been relationships with russian women for 3years. We seldom see each other only for ones a year. After 3yrs in relationships, she's decide, for us to be best friend. The reason, she fall in love with other man (i guess russian man) I try to contact her, she won't respond, when i sms her that i'm goin to russia, she replied. Don't come here, you won't see me. She try avoid me. What should i do and what's your advised? Follow my heart and try to save our relationships or just let it go. To be honest, i love her and i thought of tide a knot.
Thank you.. |
I would start with learning some decent English - you cannot spell at all. Where are you from? |
That's not exactly the answer he was looking for, spicey. |
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MrSpice
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| Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 7:01 am Post subject: |
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| No wonder a woman chose another guy - he cannot even explain himself |
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shah
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| Hello Mr Spice!!! who ever you are!!! I understand you having a bad relationships before and if you unhappy with other people, don't try to be sarcastic to someone you don't even know or meet before. At least i try my best to prove to someone that i love, then not trying at all. |
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surfguy
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Shah...I was in your same situation...trust me when I say it's over and also know that what ever her name is...there are plenty more out there. So far all the girls here have given you the best of advice...which is: move on
Sorry for your loss and it hurts...but set yourself free and don't torture yourself any more |
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