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Daria
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Oh, please, there is always more to the story. Who knows what the real deal was, anyway. We hear only one side of the story.
| Quote: | | ...... we both decided to become boyfriend/girlfriend and we both agreed to wait for one another and not talk to anyone else for 10 months. Well i asked her to be my girlfriend and if her answer was yes, i told her to kiss me and she did. She was supposed to move back to america with me in july 08, we talked about this several times. We dated for a month and half...... |
How serious can this be? Sorry, V8orBetter, looks like YOU've been making this plans for both of you, and she was just playing along to keep you happy..... |
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surfguy
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| Ok now 4 solid women here are giving you advice...Take heed. A lot of times we create our own fantasies and actually start to believe in them. The women here are all smart...and remember too One is Russian, one is married to a russian. Anyways take the women's advice |
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MrYaag
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V8orbetter,
If I was you I would listen to all the advice !!
because sooner or later your going to realise that all the advice that was given to you WAS RIGHT, but by then it would be TOO LATEf!! |
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surfguy
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| Yes...and you are too young to not be getting the experience you need to really know what love is...and some people never get it or understand it. Your's is a common story...we've all been there...and to Russia! |
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krasatulya
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| I like the pic, Daria!! |
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saint_chrisburg
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| Guys, I'd give up on this guy... he's a lost cause. He'll learn the hard way, as everybody else has. I think most young people are the same - they disregard good advice, and have to learn about life by taking the knocks themselves. I know I did. So, let him have his heart broken, it's obvious he's not going to listen to anything we say. |
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Daria
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| krasatulya wrote: | | I like the pic, Daria!! |
Thank you, Krasa. It was taken last week end. My husband and I went to Niagara region wineries. We did some wine tasting, stayed in Niagara Falls over night. It's nice to get away from work, kids and everyday routine once in a while. |
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krasatulya
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| Daria wrote: | | krasatulya wrote: | | I like the pic, Daria!! |
Thank you, Krasa. It was taken last week end. My husband and I went to Niagara region wineries. We did some wine tasting, stayed in Niagara Falls over night. It's nice to get away from work, kids and everyday routine once in a while. |
Oooh, that definitely sounds like a nice little getaway. |
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vox16
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| surfguy wrote: | | get all the data and then pull away...so that she can prove herself to you and give yo the answer and reason |
There are many justifications. She could forget his email, forget phone,
sms/phone tariffs cause immediate amphibiotrophic asphyixa, his email can't be googled and local internet cafe cause said asphyxia too.... So if she didn't actually thouth about make a call/whatever until surprize! 46 unanswered emails in inbox. |
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Coke123
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| Sorry it's only been 1 month. It's not love. You are only infatuated with her. She doesn't love you. Move on. |
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surfguy
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| vox16 wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | get all the data and then pull away...so that she can prove herself to you and give yo the answer and reason |
There are many justifications. She could forget his email, forget phone,
sms/phone tariffs cause immediate amphibiotrophic asphyixa, his email can't be googled and local internet cafe cause said asphyxia too.... So if she didn't actually thouth about make a call/whatever until surprize! 46 unanswered emails in inbox. |
Sorry...butif she was really in love...she would have written a letter to him on the plane ride home and mailed it to him when she landed. But I hope for his sake that I am wrong...as I know all this all to well...bet if I were a betting man...He should move on |
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V8orBetter
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| She wrote me back again.....seems to be she's writing me between the 17-20th of each month. which is every 3-4 weeks. She complained about how slow the internet was over there and how difficult it was for poor russian students to get access to it. That was her reason for why it would take her so long to write me back..... |
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staleek
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| Daria wrote: |
Thank you, Krasa. It was taken last week end. My husband and I went to Niagara region wineries. We did some wine tasting, stayed in Niagara Falls over night. It's nice to get away from work, kids and everyday routine once in a while. |
You should check out the wineries here in the Finger Lakes region in NY. I personally think they are superior to the ones in Niagara, especially the wineries along Geneva Lake |
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avio
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| Are you guys referring to the Niagara falls on the US side, cuz the Canadian side is a beauty for sure. |
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raptor10
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| V8orBetter, has she given you an address where you can mail her a real letter? Written correspondence has been psychologically shown to demonstrate a stronger relationship. |
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