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Fire_Goddess
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 3:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

tripchik wrote:
Fire_Goddess wrote:

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Polygamy goes on everywhere that there are muslims, they all get married in the mosque which is not required by any law to report that marriage to the government. And as most muslims believe, islamic law comes before anything else.


None of this is true. In fact, it's so ignorant, it's laughable.

Polygamy is not sanctioned in Russia. Hasn't been for a century. Even if you are muslim, which many millions of FSU Russians are. But not 'practising muslims'. The idea that all muslims are polygamous is also erroneous.

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they all get married in the mosque


Um . . . no. I see you know absolutely nothing. The square root of f all. In Russia, for example, you get married in ZAGS. Even in a muslim state, like Chechnya. On the whole, only muslim men go to the mosque for prayers.

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islamic law comes before anything else


Um ... no. The laws of the country come first.

Do read a book sometime.


You dont know any muslims THATS OBVIOUS! Now for the last time SHUT UP!!!! You have just shown up with a knife at a gun fight!
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mediashark
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 3:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have many muslim friends... but out of all of them, I only know one who has a few wives (incidentally, he was a Russian who converted to Islam and moved to Malaysia!), and he is a rich guy. Many husbands simply can't afford more time and money for another wife (and her kids).
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vitalsigns
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 4:17 pm    Post subject: Welcome Xela #2 Reply with quote

I am back to my guessing game. tripchik are you Xela by any chance? You could be his/her twin anyway. You're anti-american and anti-russian. You're defending Chechnya and muslims. Is it just a coincidence?
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vitalsigns
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 4:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fire_Goddess wrote:
tripchik wrote:
Fire_Goddess wrote:

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Polygamy goes on everywhere that there are muslims, they all get married in the mosque which is not required by any law to report that marriage to the government. And as most muslims believe, islamic law comes before anything else.


None of this is true. In fact, it's so ignorant, it's laughable.

Polygamy is not sanctioned in Russia. Hasn't been for a century. Even if you are muslim, which many millions of FSU Russians are. But not 'practising muslims'. The idea that all muslims are polygamous is also erroneous.

Quote:
they all get married in the mosque


Um . . . no. I see you know absolutely nothing. The square root of f all. In Russia, for example, you get married in ZAGS. Even in a muslim state, like Chechnya. On the whole, only muslim men go to the mosque for prayers.

Quote:
islamic law comes before anything else


Um ... no. The laws of the country come first.

Do read a book sometime.


You dont know any muslims THATS OBVIOUS! Now for the last time SHUT UP!!!! You have just shown up with a knife at a gun fight!



Way to go Fire_G.! In my opinion you have not been wrong even once telling people what their opinion amounts to!
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SPQR
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 5:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jeez...what was I saying earlier about heat and light? Wink

As I understand it, Islam allows men up to four wives, but they all have to be treated and provided for equally. However, while polygamy is allowed, in practice very few men actually marry multiple wives. (It seems that the first wife commonly objects! Fancy that! Laughing )

And before anyone accuses me of ignorance, I have spent a total of about 6 months in the Persian/Arabian Gulf region, mostly in Saudi Arabia. I've also visited Egypt, Iran, Bahrain, and the UAE.

In that time I came across one guy who had two wives. Apparently he did that only because his first wife turned out to be incapable of having children. The first wife not only gave her assent to the second marriage, but went out and chose the second wife herself. Shocked Very Happy
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tripchik
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 6:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

vitalsigns wrote:

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You're anti-american and anti-russian. You're defending Chechnya and muslims. Is it just a coincidence?


Neither. I happen to be anti-wars, holy as well as oily, and anti ignorant islamophobia.

By the way, I think you'll find Zhirinovsky was just kidding.
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Fire_Goddess
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 7:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

tripchik wrote:
vitalsigns wrote:

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You're anti-american and anti-russian. You're defending Chechnya and muslims. Is it just a coincidence?


Neither. I happen to be anti-wars, holy as well as oily, and anti ignorant islamophobia.

By the way, I think you'll find Zhirinovsky was just kidding.


You are anti american, and you were quick to attack me for what you percieved as racism against chechens! Instead of just calling me an idiot, if you thought I was wrong, you launched into your hate speech about americans which shows exactly what type of person you are. You speak of ignorant islamophobia, where is that coming from? All the information I have on muslims comes from my muslim friends, which I have plenty of, otherwise I would not have even opened my mouth on the subject! You just needed a reason to attack an american, but you know what, I dont even care because its not part of this discussion and only proves who the REAL racist is!
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tripchik
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 8:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, let's repeat what you wrote, FG.

Fire_Goddess wrote:

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This is fine for chechens considering they live in their little close knit type villages, but for people who are educated and know what love and companionship are . .


This states quite clearly, according to FG:

1. Chechens all live in villages.
2. Chechens are not educated.
3. Chechens do not know what love and companionship are.

If that's not rank ignorance calling a race 'untermenschen' I don't know what is.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 8:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="tripchik"]Well, let's repeat what you wrote, FG.

Fire_Goddess wrote:

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This is fine for chechens considering they live in their little close knit type villages, but for people who are educated and know what love and companionship are . .


This states quite clearly, according to FG:

1. Chechens all live in villages.
2. Chechens are not educated.
3. Chechens do not know what love and companionship are.

If that's not rank ignorance calling a race 'untermenschen' I don't know what is.

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1. Villages i.e. towns close knit
2. Chechens practice islam, which has something called sharia law
3. Considering it is THEIR belief system and not the rest of russia ITS FINE FOR THEM! But not fine for anyone coming from the outside!

You are still screwing up what ive said to mean what you want it to mean, YOU ARE SICK!!! I have no reason to believe chechens are ignorant, they happen to have islam as their religion, which makes certain things acceptable in their communities, which would not be acceptable elsewhere among educated populations. Many hindu indians are computer engineers, scientists, mathmeticians etc, but its never stopped them from worshipping their idols, which is FINE FOR THEM, cause its THEIR BELIEF SYSTEM. But its not fine for anyone else outside that religion. Polygamist marriage does not work among the educated, simply because they do not want to share their mates with other women! It however does not change the fact that alot of women still agree to such marriages for economic reasons, and because their religion allows this! What part of that arent you getting????? I am sick of this thread, youve ruined it with your own ignorance and self satisfying hatred for Americans! End it already!!
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vitalsigns
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 9:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Of course they do not all live in villages. I wouldn't think F.G. would be defending this. But a lot of them do live out in the country. Back in the 80s there was a joke among the armymen regarding how eligible for service chechen guys ended up being in the army: They went down from the mountains to the city to get groceries but were caught by the army recruiting personnel.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Im going to be following him all around the board and im going to be posting after each and every one of his posts and point out the racism in all his words! I will do the exact sort of twisting he is doing now! Then maybe he will learn that its not wise to jump to wild conclusions! If I wanted to be a racist, nobody is stopping me from being one! If I was a racist I would not sit here and deny it if I had posted something racist. But I am sitting here trying to clarify for this moron what I meant by my words and he is still wanting to believe what HE WANTS TO BELIEVE! Nobody else accused me of being racist in this thread! Nobody accused me of being ignorant in this thread! But a man with a picture of some guy who looks like one of the three stooges, is gonna sit here and decide that I am some how a racist and an islamophobe YEAH OK GREAT!!! Idiot!!!
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mediashark
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 9:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

3 words:
watch your words.
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tripchik
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 10:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, instead of calling it ignorance, how about disinformation.

Fire Goddess wrote:

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Polygamy goes on everywhere that there are muslims, they all get married in the mosque which is not required by any law to report that marriage to the government.


Having married a muslim in Tatarstan, Russia, I can assure you and all readers here that this is not the case in the Russian Federation.

As I posted earlier:

1. All marriages in Russia are required to be registered at ZAGS. Bigamy is not allowed.

2. One does not get married in a mosque. One is married at ZAGS.

3. The details of all marriages and divorces are recorded in every Russian citizen's national passport, muslim, christian or whatever.
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Fire_Goddess
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 10:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

tripchik wrote:
Well, instead of calling it ignorance, how about disinformation.

Fire Goddess wrote:

Quote:
Polygamy goes on everywhere that there are muslims, they all get married in the mosque which is not required by any law to report that marriage to the government.


Having married a muslim in Tatarstan, Russia, I can assure you and all readers here that this is not the case in the Russian Federation.

As I posted earlier:

1. All marriages in Russia are required to be registered at ZAGS. Bigamy is not allowed.

2. One does not get married in a mosque. One is married at ZAGS.

3. The details of all marriages and divorces are recorded in every Russian citizen's national passport, muslim, christian or whatever.


Disinformation on YOUR OWN PART! Not everyone registers their marriages with the government, infact its even argued among muslims that a "civil" marriage is not considered islamic! I happen to know for a FACT that multiple marriages have occured in the mosque, in which the man must pay some form of dawlry to the woman, then the man who runs the mosque be it sheikh, imam, mullah etc. Will then go and have them sign their names. This information does not need to be shared with the government, because all they care about is that their marriage is recognised in their community, which it always is! Some men do this in order to avoid having to divorce their first wives, so they marry another and go reside with her, while sending the first wife money for neccesities! Just because you say it is against the law does not mean that muslims will abide by that law, because it interfers with their religious rights. Multiple marriages may not take place so much in bigger cities, but in rural areas they for sure occur! Rolling Eyes Now if youll excuse me im late for my white power rally!! Laughing Laughing
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tripchik
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 2:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lynndie England wrote:

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I happen to know for a FACT that multiple marriages have occured in the mosque, in which the man must pay some form of dawlry to the woman, then the man who runs the mosque be it sheikh, imam, mullah etc. Will then go and have them sign their names.


So, exactly which mosque is this, and exactly where does it happen?

What is a 'dawlry' ?

Sign names to what?

Talk about California dreamin'.

Smoke on, Lynndie.
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