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tuller
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 Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 8:47 pm Post subject: Frustrarions |
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surfguy is correct about frustrations. My wife and I had a very loving and caring courtship..absolutly no frustrations concerning our true feelings for each other and our marriage has grown more deeply in strength.
She has never "gotten in my face" and I have never "gotten in her face" except for lot's of kisses that always prevail between us. (respect)
My wife is a "real Russia woman" and knows the value of a dollar and will spend only wisely.
surfguy is correct....there are just to many beautiful women in Russia to let just one control you and rattle your nervous system to no end.
But, if my wife was as ugly as ugly could possible be...because she is good to me and I know she loves me, then she would be the most beautiful woman in the world in my eyes.
Life is to short for any man or woman to have to live in a frustraing and controlling relationship.
I know I'm blessed and I know I can trust my wife and she trust me.
It's FUN to share a true love with my wife, not a cold or tough love.
Get going ole boy and dump that gal....your self-esteem will grow much stronger when you realize you're getting dumped on and you rid yourself of the problem...her !
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surfguy
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 10:26 pm Post subject: Re: Frustrarions |
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| tuller wrote: | surfguy is correct about frustrations. My wife and I had a very loving and caring courtship..absolutly no frustrations concerning our true feelings for each other and our marriage has grown more deeply in strength.
She has never "gotten in my face" and I have never "gotten in her face" except for lot's of kisses that always prevail between us. (respect)
My wife is a "real Russia woman" and knows the value of a dollar and will spend only wisely.
surfguy is correct....there are just to many beautiful women in Russia to let just one control you and rattle your nervous system to no end.
But, if my wife was as ugly as ugly could possible be...because she is good to me and I know she loves me, then she would be the most beautiful woman in the world in my eyes.
Life is to short for any man or woman to have to live in a frustraing and controlling relationship.
I know I'm blessed and I know I can trust my wife and she trust me.
It's FUN to share a true love with my wife, not a cold or tough love.
Get going ole boy and dump that gal....your self-esteem will grow much stronger when you realize you're getting dumped on and you rid yourself of the problem...her !
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which is why when you get a good woman the relationship works for the best and it's called LOVE, but when your partner is disrespectful and not a decent person...you kick her ass to the curb and find the right person...where love is prevelant and the key to happiness |
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tuller
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 2:09 am Post subject: Monkey |
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I think what surfguy and myself are trying to tell you is to get rid of that "monkey" and fine you a decent girl.
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jo-jo-7
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 2:37 am Post subject: Re: Frustrarions |
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| tuller wrote: | surfguy is correct about frustrations. My wife and I had a very loving and caring courtship..absolutly no frustrations concerning our true feelings for each other and our marriage has grown more deeply in strength.
She has never "gotten in my face" and I have never "gotten in her face" except for lot's of kisses that always prevail between us. (respect)
My wife is a "real Russia woman" and knows the value of a dollar and will spend only wisely.
surfguy is correct....there are just to many beautiful women in Russia to let just one control you and rattle your nervous system to no end.
But, if my wife was as ugly as ugly could possible be...because she is good to me and I know she loves me, then she would be the most beautiful woman in the world in my eyes.
Life is to short for any man or woman to have to live in a frustraing and controlling relationship.
I know I'm blessed and I know I can trust my wife and she trust me.
It's FUN to share a true love with my wife, not a cold or tough love.
Get going ole boy and dump that gal....your self-esteem will grow much stronger when you realize you're getting dumped on and you rid yourself of the problem...her !
tuller |
I am happy that you have found the right person. Trust is #1 in a relationship. I was in a very controlling relationship with my ex and it was awful. I couldn't go to the bathroom without him thinking their was a man with me in there. He was extremely paranoid. I got out of this harmful relationship. You are right true love is not cold or tough. It is funny, I knew the value of the dollar but my ex was a big spender and never appreciated what he made. I have always been able to stretch the dollar as far as it can go. It is good that you can find someone who thinks along the same side and value what you have. I can see that Russians do value their dollars more than some Americans do, but me coming from the southern states we value that almighty dollar all too well.
I have someone in mind too that I cannot wait to prevail my kisses on. It is so much fun when you truly feel that you have met the right one...   |
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surfguy
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Watch out now!  |
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tuller
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 3:38 am Post subject: Fun |
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Thank you jo jo for the nice compliments and good post.
Before my wife and I got married we had a LOT of dialog between us. I remember a comment she made to me one day during our engagement.
She said our relationship was "made in the sky" because we didn't meet in the internet and we were 6000 miles apart and how other possbile way could have been for us to learn about each other.
She also said a serious relationship takes a lot of work, but when two hearts share the same space then the relationship will not be so difficult.
My wife is very shy, quiet, very soft spoken, stubborn and hardheaded, and this I respect in her or she might just bust my butt. I've never seen the other side of her and my inherited two look alikes that look like their mom tell me I don't won't to experience it either.
A relationship needs trust, respect, give and take, patience and a lot of understanding to make it succeed. ( especially inter-culture)
The word controlling has never crossed either of our minds because we "trust" each other and have our own space when we need it.
I've found out though that I don't need as much space since I married my wife. With my ex all I wanted was space because of the controlling personality she has.
The guy that got this post started would have to be one miserable man if he didn't like being controlled.
My wife made a comment about his girl...if she spends his money often then maybe she's keeping up her ex also.
I've said enough  I hope your new relationship works well for you...
Isn't it FUN when a relationship is working smoothly
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jo-jo-7
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| surfguy wrote: | | Watch out now! |
I'm a watchen.... |
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jo-jo-7
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 4:08 am Post subject: Re: Fun |
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| tuller wrote: | Thank you jo jo for the nice compliments and good post.
Before my wife and I got married we had a LOT of dialog between us. I remember a comment she made to me one day during our engagement.
She said our relationship was "made in the sky" because we didn't meet in the internet and we were 6000 miles apart and how other possbile way could have been for us to learn about each other.
She also said a serious relationship takes a lot of work, but when two hearts share the same space then the relationship will not be so difficult.
My wife is very shy, quiet, very soft spoken, stubborn and hardheaded, and this I respect in her or she might just bust my butt. I've never seen the other side of her and my inherited two look alikes that look like their mom tell me I don't won't to experience it either.
A relationship needs trust, respect, give and take, patience and a lot of understanding to make it succeed. ( especially inter-culture)
The word controlling has never crossed either of our minds because we "trust" each other and have our own space when we need it.
I've found out though that I don't need as much space since I married my wife. With my ex all I wanted was space because of the controlling personality she has.
The guy that got this post started would have to be one miserable man if he didn't like being controlled.
My wife made a comment about his girl...if she spends his money often then maybe she's keeping up her ex also.
I've said enough I hope your new relationship works well for you...
Isn't it FUN when a relationship is working smoothly
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It is great to have something good. Stick with it. Love smooth relationships. |
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surfguy
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| jo jo 7 wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | Watch out now! |
I'm a watchen.... |
grrr... |
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Crabman
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| surfguy wrote: | | jo jo 7 wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | Watch out now! |
I'm a watchen.... |
grrr... |
Talk about two people who deserve each other. What will you will talk about? Or will it just be grr, grr, wink, wink? Isn't there a way to communicate with each other that doesn't subject the rest of us to this nonsense? Seriously. |
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jo-jo-7
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| Crabman wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | jo jo 7 wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | Watch out now! |
I'm a watchen.... |
grrr... |
Talk about two people who deserve each other. What will you will talk about? Or will it just be grr, grr, wink, wink? Isn't there a way to communicate with each other that doesn't subject the rest of us to this nonsense? Seriously. |
Oh, come on Crabman..we are just kidding around to see how you all react. Fuddy Duddies.... |
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Fire_Goddess
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Talk about two people who deserve each other. What will you will talk about? Or will it just be grr, grr, wink, wink? Isn't there a way to communicate with each other that doesn't subject the rest of us to this nonsense? Seriously. |
Jealous much? |
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surfguy
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| Crabman wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | jo jo 7 wrote: | | surfguy wrote: | | Watch out now! |
I'm a watchen.... |
grrr... |
Talk about two people who deserve each other. What will you will talk about? Or will it just be grr, grr, wink, wink? Isn't there a way to communicate with each other that doesn't subject the rest of us to this nonsense? Seriously. |
crabman...jojo and I talk everyday twice a day...and yes there is a way to communicate...it's called a phone, and e-mail, and pm, and IM...lot's of people use these services. Infact I talk to a few of the forum members via these methods. Here on this forum...we leave it at grrs and winks...it's a way to say that we identify with each other. Unfortunately I'm not going to wink at no crabaman or any man for that matter...and nor will I say grrr to them. You have the option to read or not read what is posted here |
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surfguy
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 9:56 pm Post subject: Re: Fun |
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| tuller wrote: | Thank you jo jo for the nice compliments and good post.
Before my wife and I got married we had a LOT of dialog between us. I remember a comment she made to me one day during our engagement.
She said our relationship was "made in the sky" because we didn't meet in the internet and we were 6000 miles apart and how other possbile way could have been for us to learn about each other.
She also said a serious relationship takes a lot of work, but when two hearts share the same space then the relationship will not be so difficult.
My wife is very shy, quiet, very soft spoken, stubborn and hardheaded, and this I respect in her or she might just bust my butt. I've never seen the other side of her and my inherited two look alikes that look like their mom tell me I don't won't to experience it either.
A relationship needs trust, respect, give and take, patience and a lot of understanding to make it succeed. ( especially inter-culture)
The word controlling has never crossed either of our minds because we "trust" each other and have our own space when we need it.
I've found out though that I don't need as much space since I married my wife. With my ex all I wanted was space because of the controlling personality she has.
The guy that got this post started would have to be one miserable man if he didn't like being controlled.
My wife made a comment about his girl...if she spends his money often then maybe she's keeping up her ex also.
I've said enough I hope your new relationship works well for you...
Isn't it FUN when a relationship is working smoothly
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Tuller...you definitely have a good perspective of what it is really all about...true love takes work but should come easily...happens naturally...and just is. It's completely understood and with out question. We all know that doubts all stem from reasons. Anyways sounds like you have a ideal situation and so I wish you continued happiness as you are showing the good example that we don't often see here in this forum of gloom. |
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surfguy
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 10:00 pm Post subject: Re: Frustrarions |
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| tuller wrote: | surfguy is correct about frustrations. My wife and I had a very loving and caring courtship..absolutly no frustrations concerning our true feelings for each other and our marriage has grown more deeply in strength.
She has never "gotten in my face" and I have never "gotten in her face" except for lot's of kisses that always prevail between us. (respect)
My wife is a "real Russia woman" and knows the value of a dollar and will spend only wisely.
surfguy is correct....there are just to many beautiful women in Russia to let just one control you and rattle your nervous system to no end.
But, if my wife was as ugly as ugly could possible be...because she is good to me and I know she loves me, then she would be the most beautiful woman in the world in my eyes.
Life is to short for any man or woman to have to live in a frustraing and controlling relationship.
I know I'm blessed and I know I can trust my wife and she trust me.
It's FUN to share a true love with my wife, not a cold or tough love.
Get going ole boy and dump that gal....your self-esteem will grow much stronger when you realize you're getting dumped on and you rid yourself of the problem...her !
tuller |
Well perhaps your wife should get this on a future anniversary...I think tears would be shed...along with a smile...an embrace...and one of those kisses you mentioned |
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