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Pete8400-wtr Frequent Guest Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 39 Location: Pionerskaya, Saint-Petersburg	Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:55 pm    Post subject: 3 weeks sun sea and etcetera Have to agree with "the ancients" here! Especially also with Krasatulya about the obnoxious behaviour of some young (up to 30 in my experience) people! A can of whoop-ass should be opened. Common courtesy is somewhat hard to come by it seems with the under 30's. As to the guy who's had to deal with it... Being a woossy (in these girls eyes) doesn't really do you any good you know...analytical, caring, blablabla...been there done that! Next time...yes, next time there will come a next time...be prepared. "you can be my boyfriend untill I get married, I'll squeeze you and have fun..." That is where you are heading! Analyse that too.... Sorry!
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Jorge Lounge Lizard Joined: 10 Aug 2007 Posts: 162	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 1:55 am    Post subject: surfguy wrote: sound familiar Jorge Huh?
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surfguy Lounge Wizard Joined: 13 Apr 2006 Posts: 6979	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 5:49 am    Post subject: Yes I too believe in what Krastulya and Jorge and Pete are all saying...and trust me I have been in this situation myself...my instincts would tell me one thing...but my weakness led me to do the wrong thing. She loves the attention...sorry to say but that is where it ends. But if I were you I would pull away...for a bit...and let her chase you for a while. Long distance is tough
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darthvader WayToRussified Joined: 09 Dec 2005 Posts: 427	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 6:16 am    Post subject: V8orBetter, She can afford idyllic holidays at the Black Sea, yet couldn't afford or consider thinking emailing you or text messaging you - not once? If you don't get given her full name, home address, home phone number, work number, and /or mobile number within 2 days, you should forget her. Anyway, I'm glad she contacted. Hope it works out well for you!
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surfguy Lounge Wizard Joined: 13 Apr 2006 Posts: 6979	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 7:09 am    Post subject: Ok also let me add...My former Gf used to stay at the Black sea all the time and we talked, e-mailed, and text message daily. I have two friends now who are also on the black sea...and they too write and e-mail daily...so yes as DV and the others are in fact saying...get all the data and then pull away...so that she can prove herself to you and give yo the answer and reason
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V8orBetter Frequent Guest Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 32	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 6:48 pm    Post subject: darthvader wrote: V8orBetter, She can afford idyllic holidays at the Black Sea, yet couldn't afford or consider thinking emailing you or text messaging you - not once? If you don't get given her full name, home address, home phone number, work number, and /or mobile number within 2 days, you should forget her. Anyway, I'm glad she contacted. Hope it works out well for you! Is being on the Black sea like a cruise or something? what is the black sea?
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V8orBetter Frequent Guest Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 32	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 6:50 pm    Post subject: surfguy wrote: Ok also let me add...My former Gf used to stay at the Black sea all the time and we talked, e-mailed, and text message daily. I have two friends now who are also on the black sea...and they too write and e-mail daily...so yes as DV and the others are in fact saying...get all the data and then pull away...so that she can prove herself to you and give yo the answer and reason Like I said it's probably somekind of game she's playing to see if I really like her and want to be with her.
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krasatulya VIP Joined: 29 May 2005 Posts: 590	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 7:11 pm    Post subject: V8orBetter wrote: darthvader wrote: V8orBetter, She can afford idyllic holidays at the Black Sea, yet couldn't afford or consider thinking emailing you or text messaging you - not once? If you don't get given her full name, home address, home phone number, work number, and /or mobile number within 2 days, you should forget her. Anyway, I'm glad she contacted. Hope it works out well for you! Is being on the Black sea like a cruise or something? what is the black sea? The Black Sea is a vacation destination for many Russians. Some areas of the Black Sea are very "resort" like. It's like going to the beach; people lay out and tan, swim, etc. I didn't state the obvious, but um...it's a large body of water. You should check it out on a map.
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V8orBetter Frequent Guest Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 32	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 8:16 pm    Post subject: krasatulya wrote: V8orBetter wrote: darthvader wrote: V8orBetter, She can afford idyllic holidays at the Black Sea, yet couldn't afford or consider thinking emailing you or text messaging you - not once? If you don't get given her full name, home address, home phone number, work number, and /or mobile number within 2 days, you should forget her. Anyway, I'm glad she contacted. Hope it works out well for you! Is being on the Black sea like a cruise or something? what is the black sea? The Black Sea is a vacation destination for many Russians. Some areas of the Black Sea are very "resort" like. It's like going to the beach; people lay out and tan, swim, etc. I didn't state the obvious, but um...it's a large body of water. You should check it out on a map. Ohhhhhhhhhh... sounds like lots of fun
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krasatulya VIP Joined: 29 May 2005 Posts: 590	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 8:30 pm    Post subject: It can be, but I guess I was spoiled with the beaches of the Caribbean and therefore the Black Sea's rock beaches seemed a little strange to me. It was funny seeing people with air mattresses on the beach so that they could lay out and tan.
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Pete8400-wtr Frequent Guest Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 39 Location: Pionerskaya, Saint-Petersburg	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 8:37 pm    Post subject: Black Sea And to state the rather obvious... As with most resorts... they do have internet...it's not the middle of the rain forest or sahara... Cell phones are not "out of coverage" there.... Most Russians (female) I know can't manage anymore without a cellphone, even if it is in roaming, they'd spend their (your) last Ruble And the internet is also something most if not all go really crabby about if they can't check their mail.ru or msn messenger thinghies... But hey, seems like we're talking to a wall here.....
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surfguy Lounge Wizard Joined: 13 Apr 2006 Posts: 6979	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 8:59 pm    Post subject: The Black Sea has so many resorts...and let's not forget the Winter Olympics will be held in Sochi, Odessa in the Ukraine is located on the Black Sea. Instanbul is on the Black Sea...Putin has a home on the Black Sea. She should have and could have...
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V8orBetter Frequent Guest Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 32	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:42 pm    Post subject: Re: Black Sea Pete8400 wrote: And to state the rather obvious... As with most resorts... they do have internet...it's not the middle of the rain forest or sahara... Cell phones are not "out of coverage" there.... Most Russians (female) I know can't manage anymore without a cellphone, even if it is in roaming, they'd spend their (your) last Ruble And the internet is also something most if not all go really crabby about if they can't check their mail.ru or msn messenger thinghies... But hey, seems like we're talking to a wall here..... Now I sincerely think it was just a game, just to see how I really felt about her.
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surfguy Lounge Wizard Joined: 13 Apr 2006 Posts: 6979	Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:55 pm    Post subject: One of the things we do when we are in love and don't want to face realities...is we try to justify the other's actions...we constantly try to rationalize why they behave a certain. When really they are not behaving in anyway...but we are! So stop behaving like a sap...what if she came to this forum and saw what you have posted? Rules of love are...we all want that which we can't have. The deal is you are the one with the doubts...she has no doubt that you want her. It's time to be a man...let your nuts drop...reach down and grab the pair. Stop questioning...running yourself ragged. Slow down with the e-mails to her...quit reaching and pull away...if she wants you...give her the opportunity to express that. Have some self respect...make her respect you. Because seriously you are being a sap...and no women wants a sap! And let me tell you...so far 3 women here have told you so. Hey I was in your shoes once...with a russian girl...and you know what...unless she is coming here and you are going there...nothing will ever happen. Your goal is to make her want to come to here. There are no excuses either as to why she can not. People who are in love will stop at nothing to be with the one they want...nothing. So if she wants you as much as you want her...she will stop at nothing. It's time to play it cool and make her want. Women like men...not boys!
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V8orBetter Frequent Guest Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 32	Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 12:24 am    Post subject: surfguy wrote: One of the things we do when we are in love and don't want to face realities...is we try to justify the other's actions...we constantly try to rationalize why they behave a certain. When really they are not behaving in anyway...but we are! So stop behaving like a sap...what if she came to this forum and saw what you have posted? Rules of love are...we all want that which we can't have. The deal is you are the one with the doubts...she has no doubt that you want her. It's time to be a man...let your nuts drop...reach down and grab the pair. Stop questioning...running yourself ragged. Slow down with the e-mails to her...quit reaching and pull away...if she wants you...give her the opportunity to express that. Have some self respect...make her respect you. Because seriously you are being a sap...and no women wants a sap! And let me tell you...so far 3 women here have told you so. Hey I was in your shoes once...with a russian girl...and you know what...unless she is coming here and you are going there...nothing will ever happen. Your goal is to make her want to come to here. There are no excuses either as to why she can not. People who are in love will stop at nothing to be with the one they want...nothing. So if she wants you as much as you want her...she will stop at nothing. It's time to play it cool and make her want. Women like men...not boys! they hanging coach!! they hanging coach!! oh sh*t they swangin too......LOL
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