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saint
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 Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 5:52 pm Post subject: Russian Love! |
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Hallo,
I am from Wetern Europe and I met a nice girl living in my apartment here. We are dating each other for around 3 months and we are in the exclusive stage. I have made her clear that I would like her to be girlfriend and she is also interested to have me as boyfriend. I am often confused by what stage I am, since she is very hard to display any kind of affection. Whenever, I tried to kiss, she rejects. Even, eye contacts are rare. Since, I don't have any problems in getting further date, I hope she loves me still. Is this quiet normal for a Russian girl or else we have problems in our relationship? A bit confused whether to trust or not. Could anyone help me to get out of this puzzle.
Cheers,
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007India
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why did you make a duplicate post.
this pot is already mentioned in topic: Russian Mentality!
anyway i can say one thing, if you are serious about her, try to check her past and family background and know more about her and express your likes and dislikes when ever you get opportunity. After that take her to a church one day and express your wish in front of a glowing candle in a dark atmosphere.
do it only if you are in serious love with her and not simply to exchange few French kisses.
Ah! make sure she is not married till now and neither her love with some one is materialized already.
ALL THE BEST, Long live your true relationship |
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surfguy
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| bro...all you got to do is let her act on her own and stop demanding and pressuring...pull awya and let her come to you. BS have you ever been in a relationship? Dated and what not? Have you been with a russian girl? Or a woman outside of India? |
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007India
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| Quote: | | BS have you ever been in a relationship? Dated and what not? Have you been with a russian girl? Or a woman outside of India? |
surf, i do have American friends when i worked for HP. they are lanuguage instructors there. My relationship with them as good friends. when i say friend there is no room for 'date'. |
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surfguy
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| 007India wrote: | | Quote: | | BS have you ever been in a relationship? Dated and what not? Have you been with a russian girl? Or a woman outside of India? |
surf, i do have American friends when i worked for HP. they are lanuguage instructors there. My relationship with them as good friends. when i say friend there is no room for 'date'. |
No I was referring to a romantic relationship...girlfriend...boyfriend one |
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vox16
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| Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 2:09 pm Post subject: Re: Russian Love! |
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| saint wrote: | we are in the exclusive stage.
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How do you know? |
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saint
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Hello everyone,
Thanks a lot for your answers. A hint: Last week before that incident, we agreed for a date in the late evening, but she called me on that afternoon and we spend around 7 hrs.
I made a pull out after that incident and I haven't contacted her for 3 days. When I met her on the 4th day casually in the apartment, she was very frustrated and asked me for not calling her early. She was too possessive when I was exchaning some papers to an other girl and even she was scanning it with her eyes what was written on that note. I explained her that there is nothing to doubt and my intentions are clear. However, I do have problems in getting dates after that and she even doesn't make out a date we had this weekend without any intimation. Is that meant a rejection?
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007India
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| Posted: Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:05 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | No I was referring to a romantic relationship...girlfriend...boyfriend one |
Surf, can someone expect romance btw friendship.
Lovers can become Friends after separation and not vice versa.
As you are my friend, don't mistake me for saying this. Even if its your wife you can't touch her if she objects it. there are cases here where wives complain that their husbands trying to involve in intimacy where they doesn't like it.
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007India
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| Quote: | I made a pull out after that incident and I haven't contacted her for 3 days. When I met her on the 4th day casually in the apartment, she was very frustrated and asked me for not calling her early. She was too possessive when I was exchaning some papers to an other girl and even she was scanning it with her eyes what was written on that note. I explained her that there is nothing to doubt and my intentions are clear. However, I do have problems in getting dates after that and she even doesn't make out a date we had this weekend without any intimation. Is that meant a rejection?
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This incident is too early to come to a conclusion. but anyway don't give up, as long as she is curious about your actions, something is going in background. but i would say stay cool and wait for a moment.
| Quote: | | we had this weekend without any intimation. |
your thirst for intimacy is to be checked, may be this for the reason she is taking time to judge you. If you are really serious about her, gift her this Christmas a fabulous one as a token for your love.
Hey! the gift i mean is a present not something else...
Anyway one thing i would like to know, are you really serious about her, (just kidding) |
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Miami
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| Saint I am just guessing but you might not want to look for answers to this kind of a question on an internet forum. |
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007India
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Hi Saint
Is there any update? Shall i take it that everything is through to your expectation. |
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