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Myths
and Truths about Russia
New: on President Putin, Privatization, and Khodorkovsky...
Sometimes we
hear and see so many striking, odd and new
things about Russia on TV or in newspapers or from the people
we meet, that I think I'm missing something! Really, it turns
out I live at such a dangerous place flooded with mafiosi, catastrophes,
bombings happening all the time, with deadly cold winters, demolished
economy, depressed people that I'm really surprised I'm still
alive and living here. The point is that all those things about
Russia are either not true or very much exaggerated.
Myth: RUSSIA IS FULL OF MAFIA AND IT'S DANGEROUS HERE!
Truth: Really,
many people think that Russia is some place filled with Mafia
and it's so dangerous to come here. Well, there is Mafia, but
the wild west nineties are left in the 20th century. Nowadays
it's like any place in the world and Russia is not
more
dangerous than anywhere else. If you know
where to stay, keep away from the "bad" places, do your normal
traveler's things and practice your normal traveler's safety,
you'll be okay. You can only have contact with criminals when
you're into something illegal, like buying or selling drugs,
or
are really looking for trouble. Really, think about it: why would
anybody have problems because of you? The Mafiosi spend all their
time making business, the gangs spend all their time dealing
with
each other, so you certainly will not experience any of that.
Also there's so much police on the streets of Moscow it seems
like the safest place in the world.
Myth:
IT'S A REAL HASSLE TO GET TO RUSSIA: TOO MUCH TIME AND PAPERWORK.
Truth:
If you know how it's done then it's no problem. All the
paperwork you need are your passport and an invitation from
Russia. It's easy now to get the invitation, and you don't need
to book a hotel for the whole period of your stay. The
invitations can be made through hotels/hostels (which will ask
you to book one night), or travel agencies (which will ask
only
your money), and the price in both cases will be $25-$35 US for
an invitation. The invitation can be sent to you by fax. After
you
received the
invitaiton, you just need to bring it to Russian consulate to get
your visa. A Russian visa costs around $50-$60 US (for this price
it's ready in 7-14 days), and if you pay more it takes only one
day to process. See more about invitation, Russian visa and registration
in our Russian Visa section.
Now, some people say it's too long and expensive to get here,
but if you travel to Eastern Europe, Russia is really close and
not exspensive to get to. A return flight to Moscow from most European
capitals costs $350 US, and if you're on a tight budget, you can
get one of those EasyJet or RyanAir flights from London or Berlin
to Riga (Latvia) or Tallin (Estonia), and then get a bus or a train
to Russia for $10-$25 US.
If you want to know more about these and other better options to
get to (and from) Russia, check out our Transportation
section.
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Myth: THERE ARE SO MANY CATASTROPHES AND BOMBINGS!
Truth:
Not more than anywhere else. It's just that Russia is a very big
country and it's size is like both Europe's and United States',
do you think there are more disasters happening in Russia than in
the whole Europe and United States together?
Myth: OK, BUT WHAT ABOUT CHECHNYA AND TERRORISTS!
Truth: You might be thinking more about it than we do, really.
Of course it's sad that the situation in Chechnya is unstable
and we regularly get reports about people being shot there in some
sort of small local conflicts, but however cynical it sounds we
got used to it. People live their lives and try to be as happy
as they can. Chechnya seems to be very far away and unless you
travel there, you most probably will hear about it only on the
news. The state of the people is not as if there's a war going
on in the country. It's more like people know there's something
horrible happening somewhere very far and they prefer to close
their eyes to it.
The terrorist
attacks are shocking, but then there's always a chance it might
happen
in other
other
country,
so in this
sense it is as dangerous as anywhere else nowadays, unfortunately.
Myth: THE ECONOMY
IS DESTRUCTED AND RUSSIA IS A POOR COUNTRY WITH NO FUTURE :-(
Truth: Well, it's not quite true, though many people
think so and they have their reasons. The economy is rising now,
becoming more and more independent and stable, but unfortunately
there's a temptation to do it at the cost of heavy industries (like
oil & gas, resources etc.) which turns Russia into a country,
that sells resources only.
At the same time Russia
tries to keep up with the latest technological advances, and to improve
the side of the economy that workes especially for people. It
can
be seen: I traveled around Europe a lot and to my mind the quality
of services in Russia is among the best. Almost all shops are
opened
24 hours here, there are currency exchanges on every step (even in
smaller towns), cell phone providers offer much more attractive
and
less expensive deals. Russia is becoming very capitalist and consumer-friendly.
Also, the government is starting to understand that it's there not
to suck money, but to help people and the country, but there's a high
level of corrution and a high dumb-head factor still.
At the same time the increasing gap between poor and rich people intensifies
social tension in society; there are broken down towns and villages
(with dead industries); there are lost people not required in the
new system and having nothing to do - therefore drunkenness, narcotics
and crimes; low paid old people are
really just trying to survive; low salaries in state-employment result
in bribes to customs, police...
The good side is that there are more and more people who adapt to
the new system, and who understand that they depend not on the government
(like in old Soviet times), but on themselves now, and what can be
seen and felt now is that the people are changing, their attitude
is changing, they understand that only by acting themselves will
they
achieve something, they look quite optimistic to the future and that
means everything is going to be all right. There are young people
who want to change how things are and people are trying to do something
to make their life better. It works, there are more and more "middle
class" people. But the problem with poor, old and "lost" people remains.
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Myth: THE
WINTER IS SO COLD HERE!
Truth: It's
not very cold, though sometimes it might be quite freezing. But
if you have warm clothes, you'll be ok. Generally, the lowest is
minus 10
or 15 Celsius in the winter,
though it might sometimes (rarely) go as low as minus 25 or 30, but
even that is not very cold, because it's not humid. And the true
thing
about Russian winter is that it's very beautiful, that is right.
I like it!
Myth: MANY
RUSSIANS ARE RACISTS, AREN'T THEY?
Truth: Russians are not racists. Even in the communist
time people were raised up on the idea that everybody was equal.
The only thing is that few middle-aged and old people have something
against the States. But they'll not insult or offend a tourist
because of that. Just don't hurt anybody's patriotic feelings.
Anyway, Russians are more often than not very open and generous
to the foreigners.
Myth: RUSSIANS
ARE DRINKING MUCH TOO MUCH...
Truth: Maybe, but after ages of driking they have a
strong immune against alchohol, so they don't become drunk too
fast. Also vodka is considered to be the best thing to warm oneself
up with in winter. And, in fact, I have the same stereotype about
.. uhm... British. Do they really drink as much beer every day
as they say?
Seriously, alchoholism is a big problem in Russia, especially
among older people. After the collapse of Soviet Union, many people
got lost and instead of dealing with the new challenges, they
decided to escape their problems through drinking. Because of
that, families are unhappy, many people are unemployed, people
don't want to build something new, but want to drift into the
'careless' state of mind and not to do anything.
Myth: PUTIN IS A NEW TSAR AND YOUR COUNTRY HAS DICTATORSHIP
REGIME AND NO DEMOCRATIC FREEDOMS.
Truth: Putin is just a very popular politician in Russia and he acts accordingly.
Many people in Russia truly believe that we need centralized government, because
the country is too big and loose, because there are too many changes that
need
to
be
done very fast, and that there's no time for demagogism anymore. Also, many people
believe that the country was robbed by bandits and oligarchs and now it's time
to give
back. So, the elected president is the person who used to be a director of former
KGB (now FSB) and he has nothing to hide, because he actions are approved by
the majority. So, this regime cannot really be called dictatorship and Putin
cannot be really called "Tsar", because he was elected.
The democratic freedoms are a bit tight, but as a person you don't notice it.
Perhaps, if you are in big business or want to publish something bad about the
government you will feel it, otherwise - it seems the same as anywhere else.
Myth: PRIVATIZATION
Truth: It's a myth. During the privatization
in the 90s every single Russian person (even children) got a "piece" of the country in
the
form
of a voucher. Most of them didn't have anything else. So, a director (who was
not paying them any salary) told them: "you'll get your salary, but you need
to give me the voucher you have".
It's
like
you
are
invited
to a casino and you are given a chip. But you don't have any money. Then the manager
comes up to you and tells you not to risk and just give you your chip and get
10 bucks instead.
The same thing happened in Russia: the vouchers (or shares)
accummulated
in the hands of directors who were then selling it to big players.
The big players would make their stakes and only 1% survived and now own the
majority
of
production
in
Russia. The people who sold their vouchers stayed where they started and that's
why there's a lot of social tension in Russia nowadays.
At least one positive thing is that the middle class is
now forming in our country, so the gap is not that huge anymore. But this little
story explains why so many people approve that even such an intelligent and charming
man as Yukos' former Khodorkovsky is made into criminal. What they don't want
to understand though is that the "casino managers", those who gave them the
chips first place, and they themselves are responsible, too.
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Comment (received 14/06/02):
"My son 16 year old went to Moscow. He was scared to walk around
alone, he'd been told stories about how racist the people were on
the roads, especially the older people who he says curse and ill
treat foreigners. As a non white European he felt safe only in his
group."
Answer: Well, it's a pity if they (the crazy old babushakas
and dedushkas) were cursing and ill treat him on the street, but
I don't think those people are dangerous... I'm a white Russian
and when I walk in Moscow or take public transport there's an old
person almost every day pissing me off about something. It's just
the way they are... I don't find them treatening though, the best
thing is just not to pay attention to them.
Also, I never heard about anyone being openly racists, it's the
first time. I agree that sometimes Russians (especially in smaller
towns) look at black people more, but that is because they are interested,
it's not often there' s a black person in Russia... When I went
to India in some areas I was the only white person around an people
were gazing at me, as if I'm from another planet... And of couse,
there was a different attitude towards me, because I'm not one of
them, but I don't consider it as racism...
Comment (received 21/06/02): "I was in
Moscow in 1994, great experience!! I'm planning to return this
year. I think people have a misconception about Russia because
so few people were able to travel to Russia until the past decade.
What tips would you give a traveler who wants to experience the
'real' Russia, it's culture and people."
Answer: If you want to experience 'real' Russia, you should
stay away from tour groups, big expensive hotels, and postcard
views. To me, 'real' Russia is a mix of west and east, of fancy
streets and quiet residential areas, of busy city life and 'laid-back'
provincial atmosphere. So, I would propose not to do typical tourist
things, but to try to pretend as if you live in Russia. Also,
to get the whole picture of what life is like here, it's not enough
to go to Moscow and St. Petersburg, you should definitely visit
one or two provincial towns to get the "feel" of Russia.
Comment
(received 21/06/02):
"I heard that Russian girls are quite different from others,
?"
Answer: Yes, they seem to be, if you mean being different
from women in Europe or in the US. But it's hard to say how specifically,
because it will be a generalisation and very subjective for every
person. Generally, the striking thing to any person who's coming
to Russia for the first time is that Russian girls are wearing very
"open" dresses, mostly in Summer, of course. Maybe it's
because it was kind of suppressed in the Soviet times? Also, they
seem to be planning their life less than western people, but nevertheless
are very pragmatic. Many foreigners, whom I talked with, noticed
to me, that Russian women want to live "here and now"
rather than planning something long-term. However, this "here
and now" should be good quality too, so that's where they are
pragmatic. They are not too career oriented, but many are looking
for an ideal man, who will be handsome and rich (however they like
to be independent too, so they look carefully). There are also completely
different types of people, of course, very 'western-like' and there
are more and more of them. They are very well educated, career-oriented,
and independent. It's like in any other country -- people are different.
For now, that's all I can think of, if you have any comments,
please, write. Also, it would be interesting to hear how different
Russian men are. For some reason everybody's asking about the
women, but the men are forgotten.
Comment
(received 26/06/02): "I visited your country for the first
time, three weeks ago. I was in Moscow, and some little towns arround,
and in Peterburg. I and my friends feel very well. We enjoy the
country very much. Russian people is very, very kind. I'll be back,
as soon as possible."
Comment
(received 29/06/02): "this websight fucking rocks."
Answer: Thank you, this kind of feedback is what keeps us
going (really).
Comment
(received 30/06/02): "I heard recently that people were being
beaten up by skinheads in the metro. I am a chinese girl who will
be going to moscow alone in July, are there anything that I should
be aware of to avoid situations like that?"
Comment (received 1/07/02): "I have not
yet been to Russian but had a very wonderful time with some Russian
athelets during the winter oylmpics in Salt Lake and I can say
that I am looking forward to coming to see them and having a wonderful
time in Moscow. Speaking with my friend Elena she told me later
that she had not expected Americans to even say hello to a Russian
and that was why they were so interested in me because I did not
let the past get in the way of a new friendship."
Comment (received 14/07/02): "Couldn,t
agree with you more. Moscow has to be one of the safest cities
in Europe. I lived there for 3 years, 98 to 01 and the only problem
I had was from a drunk yank who kept pinching my girlfriends backside
in the Propaganda night club. When I asked him to stop he punched
me, but then I had the pleasure of watching the highly effcient
bouncers launch him head first through the heavey wooden doors
out on to the street. God Bless Russia and Her Bouncers"
Comment (received 15/07/02): "Hi! I've
visited St Petersburg twice now and both times I was amazed at
the hospitality, humour and general friendliness of the Russian
people. This coming September I'll be lucky enough to be starting
work in Petersburg for a year. Looking at your site, which incidentally
is great, I see that even since I last visited all sorts of new
and exciting things are happening. If anyone is visiting this
site considering a visit to Russia let me tell you that you must
go. It really is an incredibly wonderful place.:)"
Comment (received 8/08/02): "I am Russian
American and returned to Russia to live and work, both to learn
firsthand my parent language and its people, and also to make
innovative improvements and help present a better picture of this
great country from the inside out. Many many people are negative
about Russia, which is why I write and fight so hard to change
these views and present the reality of life in Russia. This website
is the best and most honest I have found on the web and I intend
to promote at every opportunity I can on my own webpages and in
my career writing. I wrote similiar ideas to National Geographic
magazine in the March 2002 issue and they published it. All the
best to the creator(s)/writer(s) of this website, and everyone
who views it with positive thoughts."
Comment
(received 18/08/02): "Hey, I am Russian, lived ion Moscow
my whole life and the thing you posted about racism is pure bullshit.
Russians ARE racist. Moscow is a great place, but it is one of the
worst places in the world to be black or anything other then white.
If you are white, people will treat you like equal. If you are not,
militia will give you shit all the time, people wouldn't be too
friendly with you and if you are really unlucky a buncha skinheads
will beat the crap outta you. A black American embassy consul was
attacked by skinheads two yeas ago. So come as long as you are white."
Answers: I wouldn't agree with that. I also live in Moscow
and I personally treat people "other than white" as equal.
I also know many people who have black friends or asian friends
and I personally didn't hear about any problems. The only time I
hear about racism is from newspapers and TV (and recently, through
the comments left through this page) and it seems suspicious. I
don't understand how you can say that all Russians are racist. I
don't know anybody who's racist personally. I just came back from
a 1-month trip in Siberia and Buryatia (where there are many Buryat,
Russians and Mongolians living together) and NEVER met a person
who would be racist. Contrary, I was pleased, very much pleased
to see how friendly people live together.
I think that you get what you expect. If you come to a country and
you think that the people who live in this country are bad (by default),
then I'm 100% sure you'll won't meet anybody nice.
Comment
(18/08/02):
"I spent five days in Moscow recently staying at the Hotel
Belgrad. I found the automobile traffic and pedestrian walking to
be a nightmare. You are risking your life when you cross the street.
Russian men are drinking open containers of beer in the metro stations
which is against the law in the U.S. Foreigners are overcharged
at cultural attractions compared to Russian citizens. The women
in Russia are the most attractive women in the world."
Comment
(received 20/08/02): "I disagree with your comment about
Russians not being racists. I teach Russian immigrants in the United
States and have heard some of the most vile racist comments out
of their mouths. I'm not just talking about old people but young
people too. Obviously you have no idea what a racist is."
Answer: I'm amazed how you can generalize so much saying
that you disagree that Russians are not racists! Do you want to
say that all Russians are racists? You base your knowledge only
on some particular personal experiences with some specific people
to whom you teach.
I'm not saying that there are no racists in Russia at all. Of course,
there are different people and different beliefs. And there are
some people who believe in superiority of their race towards the
others. But it doesn't mean that you can just put the "racist"
tag on the whole nation.
I am sorry if you have to teach something to a bunch of vile racists,
and if you don't like it, maybe you could just change your job...
Comment
(20/08/02): "A wonderful and very useful page!"
Answer: Mmhh... Thank you! It's very nice to receive comments
like this one.
Comment (27/08/02):
"Thank you for your site. All the information is relevant and
valid. You should be proud of it!
We visit Russia at least once a year and love the country. It
is complex and unique! Yes there is what you could call 'rascism'
but it's really just the 'unusual' appearance of black people
in the sea of whites you otherwise see. Though there are already
enough 'Asian appearance Russians' from the Republics around to
make looking asian a non-event.
I have never had any Russian not try to help me when asked - though
suprise is usually evident when you walk up to talk to a person.
Isn't that nowadays true in any large city. Home truths!!
The public toilets everywhere I've travelled in Russia are disgraceful!
Something the whole country will need to attend to if it wants
to become a tourist destination of the size it deserves to be.
I think Russians know this already - just no-one is doing anything!
Think Black people would have as great a risk of being offended
in much of the USA or Britain as they will experience in Russia.
Though in many areas they will be a novelty. I live in Melbourne,
Australia and I will walk in places and times in Cant Peiter that
I wouldn't dream of at home.
The tourist rip offs are as bad as anywhere else - in balance
- the bargains far outweigh that. If you travel in Russia flaunting
your 'superiority' or 'wealth' (both alleged) you will be made
uncomfortable. (I hope so!)
And as you say 'babushka's are the conscience of the country.
It's wonderful that Russia is now open - for better and worse.
I enjoy it's beauty and the differences - otherwise I could stay
at home!
Russian women are beautiful generally and well groomed.
Be friendly and open yourself and get to experience what's available
to those who are!!
Answer: Thank you for the interesting letter. Just a note
about the public toilets for travelers: don't use the ones that
are on the streets, but better try to find a restaurant or a cafe
-- nobody will mind if you use the toilets there.
Comment (received 10/09/02): I've been
to St.Pete's three times and I think it's great!
Sure, some things may be a little run down and old, but nothing
serious. The first time I went to my wife's flat, I was a little
shocked at the crumbling appearance of the building, but once
inside her family's flat things were bright and new! Oh, I noticed
many new buildings being built.
The trains can be quite shocking to a spoiled westerner...broken
windows, Soviet-era green rust-stained paintjobs, very hard wooden
benches(no comfy unholstered seats), and a non-ending succession
of salespeople hawking their wares in each car. The first time
I rode the train, a man came into the car, opened a case, took
out a large kitchen knife, and began yelling at the crowd.
Not knowing Russian, I thought the guy was going to freak and
do a "Jason" (Friday 13th, if anybody remembers or cares), but
my wife assured me he was just selling knives.
Capitalism is alive and well in Russia...there are an incredible
number of small kiosks selling anything you need. I went into
a brand new Walmart-style superstore, but everything was overpriced.
And ahhh, the joy of drinking a beer, anywhere anytime! Think
you have to wait until you get home to savor a cold one? Naww,
just buy a Baltika or six and crack them open on the metro and
drink! And if you're a vodka lover, every store seems to have
a selection of at least 20 different vodkas...I
thought it was tasteless...why so many brands wonder?
Oh, the metro is like most others...not much fun but gets you
from A to B.
It's difficult not to look like a foreigner, but it seems that
a black leather jacket and black trousers and shoes might help
you fit in(for the guys). Never had a problem with streetcrime,
although I'm a fairly big guy. I did hear about an elderly American
couple who were accosted by pickpockets... nothing serious though.
A baseball cap seems to be a sure way to stick out...didn't notice
many at all.
Lots of McCrap restaurants if you like that shit, but I prefer
to do my own cooking. Basic food staples are quite cheap comparatively)...dollars
will go a long way in Russia.
Russian people are great! Very hospitable(if you know them). Always
ready to celebrate anything with a bottle of wine or cognac. Great
conversationalists!
Like to have fun! Some can resent foreigners a bit, but usually
only the asshole tourists. If you're decent to them and don't
brag too much
about your country and certainly don't put down Russia, you'll
make friends easily. I don't where our image of the stern, unemotional
Russian came from
during the 80's and before, but they're anything but!
I noticed that on buses and metros and any kind of public transport,
people are very quiet and don't talk much.
I think
a few Russian men resent western men being with Russian women,
but I've only experienced it once, and he was completely drunk.
"Look, a Russian woman with a foreign man!" Yeah buddy, so what?
All
in all, I like Russia and Russians very much! I just wish I could
speak the language.
Comment
(received 18/09/02): "This is a cool site. Anyway, a
comment about Russian MEN this time. My Russian boyfriend is gorgeous,
but where is all the rest of the eye-candy in Moscow? Why don't
Russian boys take care of themselves? The girls are so pretty,
but there doesn't seem to be many pretty boys - very strange.
Is it because they're afraid to look nice? I think Russian men
can look fantastic (great eyes and bone structure) if they want
to, but they don't seem to care. Pity."
Answer: All the rest of the "eye-candy" work
on this site.
Comment
(received 09/10/02): "I LOVE RUSSIA. I recently returned
from teaching English in Moscow for 5 months and I absolutely loved
it. I lived with a Russian host family. The Russians that I met
there have been some of the most thoughtful, wonderful, and kind
people with the biggest hearts that I have ever met. I am fascinated
with Russia. This past summer I have taken some Russian language
classes, and this January I am planning on returning to Moscow to
be a head teacher for the same program. Thanks so much for your
site. It is really helpful! RUSSIA RULES!!!!!!!!!!!"
Comment
(received 12/10/02): "i love moscow and rusisa i was born
there and i have always promoted a vacation or trip to the country.
people just have to open their eyes and realize that what you see
is not always what you get. it may seem that russia is dangerous
just because it is big, but it is sum-what opposite. i love it and
i hope that everyone has a chance to go there and enjoy their time
there as much as i did."
Comment (received 22/10/02): "Lots
of truth there...
But to say russians are not racist is a bit "out of order".
I had milk thrown in my face, verbally assaulted and given the
odd Nazi salute by Neo-Nazi's WHO WHERE RUSSIANS!!!
My Russian friend told me several times how she could overhear
the racist mumblings on the bus or by passersby because they obviously
thought she was English and couldn't understand Russian too I
am not saying all Russians are like that...in fact the opposite,
it more like anywhere else...you alway's get a little bit of Nazi
in every country (the young forget their past and blame everything
on foriegners and the old can just be xenophobic) but the Majority
of people that you meet are not Neo-Nazi's
The weather bit is not true...like you say russia is a big place
and variations do occur...I have been there twice in both winter
and summer months, the weather in the winter was on average -14
in Moscow and -30 in ufa...the summers can also be like this,
this summer it was about 30 in Kaliningrad 20-25 in Moscow and
about 10 in ufa so it depends where you go and the times.
It is a real hassel to get to russia...I agree in part of what
you say, but apart from the obvious of what you mentioned, the
worry can be more of the issue there...refusing you cos of any
little thing they get Paranoid with and then sending it to you
when they can be bothered and even then it could be the wrong
visa, unclear procedure's that are heavily fined if you dont comply
exact...a high percentage of bribery (you mention this yourself)
from
anyone in a uniform
Comment (received 22/10/02): Sorry I have a question for
you and I wasn't sure of the best place to post it...so here will
have to do
I am a black man from England...and have been to russia a few
times, many people stare at me...but they still choose to stare
at me more than another black man (that is probably African)?
This is probably a wierd question...but can people (white russians)
tell the difference between a European black man from a African
one?
Answer: Well, it's hard to answer... Normally, Russian
people don't see many black people, so I doubt they can really
tell the difference... The easiest way for them to know is to
hear the language. If a person speaks English, they'll think he's
an American (or English), if the language sounds African, they'll
think the person is from Africa. I wonder, why are you asking?
Just from my own experience, I can always notice if a person is
a foreigner or not.
Comment (received 28/10/02): "Ok, this is better than
the facts about Russian people that are not true on the page "What
is Russia?""
Answer: Wassup? What's wrong with the facts about Russian
people (http://waytorussia.net/WhatIsRussia/Intro.html)?
All we write on this site is the best it can be (except the grammar
maybe ;-)
Comment (received 29/10/02): "Excellent site. Lots
of very useful info. I'm a lithuanian and I will definitely visit
Russia some time next year. I know russian language (learnt it
back in soviet times) and I still remember my childhood when I
was playing with my russian mates. Generally speaking, russians
are very hospitable, friendly and probably the most open hearted
people I've ever met, but you have to gain their respect first.
As someone rightly put in the earlier comment: don't be a snob,
don't try to be too cool and don't make people feel as though
you are somehow supperior because it looks really bad. If you
think you can manage that then your visit to Russia will definitely
be one of the best you'll ever make.
Comment
(received 10/11/02): "I would like to hear your thoughts
on Russian men, in general. I work with a Russian man and he is
very, ummm, different in the way he interacts with people. He
is quite a mystery and I would love to get inside his head or
at least someone from the same country's head! :) Thanks!"
Answer: Ohhh, it's a very hard and provoking question.
I think that most of the Russian men I meet are absolutely adequate,
nice, and interesting people with a unique personality.
However, you may also meet some weird men, who have something
very strangely typical among them. I tried to put it into two
types: "bear" and "workaholic".
The "bear" is a man that's very much to himself, not
too expressive to strangers. Proud. Doesn't look after himself
enough. A bit shy. Likes calm life.
However, once he lets himself go (in most cases it is either with
friends, or after a shot or two of vodka) he changes most of his
patterns to contrary: very open, smily, a bit too much, noisy,
tries to get with women.
To get to know such person, you really need to become his friend
or spend an evening drinking something strong together.
The "workaholic" type likes everything about western
way of life, so in the way he is, he tries to be a "western
type". He'll be pleased if you mistake him for a foreigner.
He doesn't like Russia too much, so he's thinking about emigrating.
He works a lot to achieve a status and to have a lot of $$. He's
fast. His girlfriend will be like a piece of his wardrobe to show
to his friends and colleagues. Needless to say, his personal life
is a wreck. He seems to be open minded, but soon you learn that
it is so only within a very narrow "corridor" limited
by his business and status interests.
I want to point out that it's just a little fraction of characters
you can meet, they came first to my mind, and of course, everybody's
different, so please don't adopt any stereotypes!
Comment (received 2/12/02): Great info and it's finally true too......or at least the most part of it. I'm from russia but now i live in USA. Most of my friends are Russian and they are racist agains everyone exept themselves.......Mostly hispanics...and americans too. Russia is a great contry and there is no doubt about it. And the fact that Russians mistreat others at school is bacuz other mistreat them.....i would know, i had that happen to me especially 4 years ago when i just came to america and didn't speak a word of english. But still a GREAT SITE!!!!! :) MOLODEC"
Comment
(received 9/12/02): "I'm from Mexico and I have
travelled extensively throughout the world, but Russia has to
be one of the most interesting and beautiful places I have ever
visited (was in Moscow, St. Peterburg, Kazan and Penza in May
2002). Russia and its people are simply wonderful. It totally
overwhelmed me. I will have to come back in January to really
experience Russian winter. To my surprise, the food was also excellent.
Russia's, culture, architechture, history and scenery are simply
too great to miss!"
Comment (received 20/12/02): "Hi, I just
wanted to let you know that this site is incredible, you've certainly
captured the "big picture" of the whole nation. I truly
think that you're analyzation of the country as a whole is incredible
and highly accurate to a certain extent. I was recently in St.
Petersburg and I think it's an incredible city and I plan on returning
next year, although I didn't get to experience much of "real"
Russia (more like the tourist-life), I still got a general idea
of what it was really like there because I have many family and
freinds currently residing all over Russia. Please continue your
incredible work, it's so useful!"
Comment (received 28/12/02): "My son has
recently married a Russian woman. They travel regularly to Russia
on business, and I am fortunate to be able to go with them to
St Petersburg in June 2003. I have enjoyed reading the comments
on your site, very informative! I see I have much to learn about
the country and people, and am reading as fast as I can, and trying
to learn a few words of Russian, starting with the Cyrillic alphabet...oh
boy! My son tells me that Russia is wonderful, not at all the
way it is portrayed in Western media etc. I hope to meet some
of my new daughter-in-law's family, and see as much as I can of
the country in 10 days. This site is extremely informative. Well
done.
P.S. I am a seasoned vodka drinker already...so...one thing I
don't need to study or practice!"
Comment (received 17/01/03): "Heya - I have
been travelling for years and using the net even longer than that.
I'm about to come to Russia for the first time and found your
site while I was doing some research. This has GOT to be one of
the most usefull websites I've ever come accross. You rock. Well
done! :)"
Comment
(received 9/02/03): " I was last in Moscow in 1998.
There was a tornado which did a heck of a lot of damage. I remember
thumbing a lift back to my hotel - it was always £5 (can't
remember it in roubles) but this night the journey took hours
crawling along through the fallen trees and smashed up cars -
and the fella still wouldn't take any more than £5 from
me. In London I'd have been skinned!
The only annoyance was some the ex-pat Brits and Yanks - real
arseholes!
I thought the locals were friendly, warm and noticeably well-educated
compared to people from the west. I was also impressed that they
tolerated my appalling attempts at the language.
I'm finally returning this April - Aaargh can't wait! Sorry, almost
forgot - nice website, thanks."
Comment
(received 11/02/02): "I'm a freelance web developer
who grew up in Washington DC, has been to Great Britian, Canada,
and Mexico, but not yet to Russia. Recently I have had occassion
to work on some global project teams with some very fine folks
from Moscow, Kaliningrad, and (somewhere in) Siberia.
I'm 34, and the Russians I work with range from 20 - 35 in age.
Mostly male, but a female or two are there as well. I don't chat
with the ladies as much, due to language barriers. There is one
person on each team who speaks fluent enough english that I end
up chatting with them all the time, but I've spoken now to about
6 Russian people on a daily basis for nearly a month.
I LOVE to chat with these people in my instant messanger, and
I typically have hated using chat online in the past. We work
and enjoy ourselves for hours sharing info about our great nations
and cultures and world views. Sometimes though we digress to talk
of games, booze, and dirty jokes. Some things are Global in appeal,
eh?
In fact, I came here looking for some phrases I could use with
them in Russian, to surprise and honor them. It's ridiculous that
we Americans usually only speak one language and poorly at that!
I look forward to learning more Russian, to augment my high school
German, and to someday visit and drink beek in public on a hard
train bench with my new friends.
I have to say I didn't even know about the Russian racist stereotype,
and I consider myself well read. But what I have learned from
my new Russian friends over the past month has been that this
is a country experiencing an awakening, it's a very exciting time
there, and the young people are seizing life and living it in
a way their parents never could have.
Socially graceful, ever accepting, and just flat out fun to chat
with. THATS my picture of Russians today! I can't wait to go there
and meet them all!
Thanks for your site. I feel just like the guy who told you this
site F'n rocks! Cause it DOES! I learned a great deal here, and
Will be excitedly sending a few russians your way tomorrow morning,
to let them get an external view of themselves. I can't wait to
see how amusing they find this site!
Thanks again,
Corky K.
adedicated.com"
Answer: Thank you. It would be nice to know what
your Russian friends think about it. Most of the comments we receive
from Russians are like: "What you say about Russians is not
true, well, yeah... uhm... actually some things are true, but...."
:-)
Comment (received 13/02/03): "I heard Russians worship
the Birch Tree and many wouldn't leave the country because they
would be leaving their sacred tree."
Answer: Yeah, this is kind of true. I'm a Russian,
and I don't worship the Birch tree, but before I traveled, I thought
that the Birch grows only in Russia and that it is a "true
Russian tree". I'm still surprised when I see it somewhere
in Europe, I feel as if I'm in Russia. It's more like a stereotype
in people's mind here, I think. Also, birch tree is really an
image in Russian literature (especially Esenin).
Comment
(received 1/03/03) (excerpts): "[...] This spur
of interest (one of my latest) for Russia was triggered strangely
enough by a certain "pseudo-lesbian" chart-topping pop
sensation from Moscow. I was wondering how you guys feel about
that. Although one would assume that "smart student types"
such as yourselves would be somewhat indifferent to or even disgusted
by such a group.I'd be happy if a group from my country could
have such a success abroad. They've put Moscow on the pop map
of the world.So anyway, I was thinking, who the hell knows what's
happening over there since the collapse of the Soviet Union (oh
yeah, like we knew what's going on during Soviet years).
Few years ago there was a "new" Russian film on TV here
(I'm in Croatia by the way-you know one of those cheerful little
countries that emerged after the collapse of ex-Yugoslavia,then
the war and everything...) The movie shown was "Strana gluhih"
("Land of the deaf"-released 1998), and I really liked
it. It was advertised as the "movie of the year In Russia".
I don't know whether that's true but adding to the debate on Russian
women I remember thinking "Vow! This has got to be the most
beautiful girl in the world!"-(Chulpan Khamatova). Anyways
where I'm getting at is
that I would love it if you could put up a music and film section
to the site, with brief history and mainly concentrated on these
last, post-USSR years.[...]
Answer: Thank you very much for your comments.
It's true we feel indifferent for this group (Tatu), but surely,
it's interesting that they're taking the top places in the European
charts. I remember I was surprised when I heard some music news
in England and there was this group at the 1st place... They are
also very popular in Russia. But I think it is more because they
have a good producer, who knows what strings he should pull, rather
than music.
In fact, we were thinking about making a guide to Russian music
and Russian film guide (we already have Russian
literature guide - have you seen it?). The music guide would
list a few most popular Russian groups (Tatu, Zemphira, Mumy Troll),
ethno musicians (Huun-Huur-Tu - throat singing), Russian jazzmen,
and alternative groups (DDT, Chaif).
Comment (received 9/03/03): "Hi, I am a
sixth grader doing a report on Russia. Where could i find information
about local laws so I can compare them to our laws? Also, where
we have local city and county police, CIA and FBI, what does Russia
have that compares? Thank you. Calvin"
Answer: You can try either try http://www.garant.ru/
(click "English version") or http://www.consultant.ru/
As for the police, there's a Ministry of Internal Affairs ("MVD"
in Russian) and they are like head police body. Then there are
local police divisions for every region and city. In fact, it's
more like CIA, although not exactly. The closest analogue to FBI
is FSB ("Federal Security Bureau"), which is former
KGB - Commitee of Government Security.
Comment
(received 11/03/03): " I am a Russian citizen and
I am proud of it! I'd never swap livin' here to livin' in any
other country of the world. Yeah, we, Russians, are silly drunkards
with no electrisity, shampoo, soap, computers, TV, human rights,
money and brains... But, wait a minute, how did you think I've
managed to type this message? Listen to me, foreign guys! We are
no rasists! We do not drink more alcohol than you do! We speak
your English and are always friendly to the tourists. We won the
World War II and we will win the war against terrorists. We're
the nation of deeds, not of words. We're brave and smart, and
we don't have time for bla-bla-bla, that's why somebody consider
us dumb. Then explain me, how could we fly to space and envent
so many useful things? There are no bears in our streets and people
here wear regular clothes. Look at our President and you'll see
the common Russian person, the majority of us is the same. That's
all I can ay about that... Good luck!"
Comment
(received 16/03/03): "Like the comment made on the
1st of March, i got interested in Russia through Tatu. But since
January-ish when i got interested, i've been reading all the stuff
i can find about Russia, and it's really interesting. I've recently
started learning Russian through CD-ROM, and i'd love to go to
Russia (but not yet).
(I'm from Wales in the UK). The west has this image of Russia
being cold, poor, and misserable, and always drunk. And lets face
it, Russia is very cold in the winter compared with western Europe,
and Russians have a smaller income per person than Costa Rica,
and you'r fond of the odd drink (take russian weddings for example).
But these things are blown out of proportion and i'm sure it's
a blast there (if you speak the language and have money).
I'm surprised by some of the people not in your 'Famous Russians'
list. like, Baryshnikov, Ivan 'The Terrible' Vasiljevich, Nureyev,
Prokofiev, Yashin, Rasputin, Karpov, Kasparov.
Anyway, i really like this site, and is jampacked with interesting
and useful info. So Thanks! "
Comment (received 23/03/03): " Hello. I
live in Russia, and just wanted to say, that you, probably, haven't
payed much attention to other Russian citiyes. There are much
of cities and towns in Russia: not only Moscow and Peterburg.
And they are more different, sometimes even more interesting,
than capitals. Maybe you can write about other cities and small
towns too?"
Answer: Why, we do pay attention to other Russian
cities: there are guides to Golden Ring cities, Novgorod, Siberian
cities on our website. Perhaps, you mean that comments on this
page tend to represent more Moscow & St. Petersburg, than
the whole Russia? I wouldn't agree.
Comment (28/03/03): "Hi,you published my
comment on this page in which I sing praises to "russian"
beauty of actress Chulpan Khamatova
but little did I know that she is actually ethnic Tatar.
So here is a "myth" for you:Few years back my friend
met a Russian girl from Kazan and she was telling him about tensions
between Russians and Tatars in Russia.She said that in Kazan there
is a strict segregation between the two ethnic groups.She even
compared the relationship
between Russians and Tatars in Russia to black/white situation
in America. Could you comment on that."
Answer: This is a complete myth and is not true at all.
I have a few friends who have been to Kazan, and they even asked
people there (out of interest) if there are any tensions. And
on numeruous occasions the answer was always "no".
Comment (28/04/03): "Read this article about
racism in Russia.
http://social.narod.ru/civil/felix.htm"
Answer: Well, this is a very sad article. If
what is written in this article actually happens, we should find
a way of fighting it, drawing attention to it. But in order to
do that, an organized action is needed. Please, tell me what you
think about it.
I myself have never seen a black person being harassed or beaten
or offended on the streets in Russia, really. But I'm not black
and maybe I don't see everything that actually may happen.
I would very much like to hear what other black people who live
or traveled to Russia think on this issue. Please, could you post
your comments on this issue in our Talk
Lounge / "Russian Contexts" section - it is quite
popular and it will be easier to have a discussion there.
Thanks
Comment
(8/05/03): "I was in Russia for 10 days in March
2003 and this is my unbiased opinion on the topics mentioned above:
MAFIAS: Everyone there agreed that a good part of business was
ran "underground". Meaning, mafias. It may also seem
suspicious how so many russians in Moscow came to be SO FUCKING
RICH. However, you will not have to deal with any mafia people,
unless you're trying to open a business there! As a tourist, we
never came across any. Don't worry about this. There are more
mafias elsewhere and the mafia level is not proportional to the
security in the streets. For example, the YAKUSA is the world's
largest mafia and it is based in Japan, supposedly a very safe
country.
ECONOMY: Central Moscow seems richer than Mayfair. I've never
seen so many Mercedez in my life, there are more S500s in Moscow
than in Berlin! BMWs, Jaguars... The women are exquisitely dressed
up and the luxury is imminent in Tverskaya St. The rest of the
city is not that rich, but to say DEVASTATED is unpardonable.
St. Petersburg is not so posh, but Nevsky Prospect seems to have
a bustling economy. Plus, why do would you car about the economy
if you are just travelling? It should not be a drawback. Peru
is venerated by tourists and people are starving here.
DANGERS: When I asked the lady at the reception if the area around
the hotel was safe, she laughed, almost indignated. Central Moscow
(where you will ussually be because there is not much to see in
the suburbs) is VERY
SAFE. Plus, there are policemen EVERYWHERE. The Moscow police
is only paralleled by the NYC police and that is a proven fact.
I cannot speak for the suburbs, but most of it is residential
areas which are tranquile. Perhaps you would like to avoid the
metro late at night... I took the metro at 10:30pm and it was
very peaceful though, and there were policemen in the station.
Plus, YOU DO NOT WANT TO OVERLOOK THE METRO STATIONS.They are
lavishly decorated with marble. Ubbelievable. They even have statues
inside. And most of them are IMPECABLE, not a trace of graffiti
or anything of the kind. The best examples are perhaps ARBATSKAYA
St. and BYELORUSKAYA St.
VISA: You will need an INVITATION and around $40. Nothing else.
The invitation, if you are travelling with a tour is free. If
travelling independently you will need to buy one from some agency.
You can buy one from this page, or from lots of other reliable
ones. Try yahoo and you will find quite a few. Sometimes your
hotel can send you one. If you are travelling to a hostel or youth
hostel, you'll have to buy one from them.
The Russian council in Peru is atypical because they asked us
for the ORIGINAL version of the invitation. This we had to had
sent by FedEx. With this invitation, our passport and $45, we
got our visa in 3 days. Not difficult at all. YET, if you are
a US or UK citizen, the process is different. I met an American
who said visas for them IS a hastle - as is a tourist visa for
a Russian to go to the US. Another UK guy said he was denied the
russian visa BOTH IN LONDON AND IN AMSTERDAM.
- Registering your visa is no problem at all. It takes about 2
hours and your hotel will do that for you. You see, it sounds
difficult, but its just paperwork. ***Some policemen will try
to tell you that you need to register your visa in every city
you go to. BULLSHIT. That's just an excuse for bribery. They tried
to trick us into that like 3 times. We told them politely that
we knew the regulations and that "Russian Council in our
country said only 1 stamp". They'll know fair amount of english.
Do not take it personal, its just underpaid ordinary people.
CATASROPPHEES AND BOMBINGS. It is a fact that Chechen Rebels have
carried out a fair number of bombings in Moscow. The theatre hijack
last year is another example. I certainly have no idea how you
can prevent any of these. I guess its just bad luck. Its not much
more of a problem than in Ireland or Spain or the US... just that
in big, Russian proportions. Yet there has never been something
nearly as striking as September 11th if you want a comparison
with the understood civilized-world.
WINTER: It does seem to get dead cold in January or February,
around minus 15, minus 20. I was in March though, and neither
in Moscow nor St. Petersburg were we lower than minus 2, which
is quite bearable. Those astonishing temperatures are ussually
recorded at night, while you'll sleeping or partying like a mad-man
in some hot disco. St. Petersburg has a warmer cimate for the
closeness to the ocean.
RACISM: This is the most delicate issue. Russians are racist,
and for this you must blame the diversity of the country. We were
so frightened of the Skin Heads that instead of going to a youth
hostel in a not so centric area, we went to HOTEL ROSSIYA. (Please,
don't go to this hotel, it sucks. It has the less friendly staff
I've ever seen and it is a rip-off and urrrrrgh, though if you
want a better location try booking a bed in the Kremlin or next
to Lenin!). For a good review of the skin-head problem try www.exile.ru,
the page of a semi-underground newspaper which is the closest
to the truth. The skin-head problem is basically teenagers (some
as young as 13) who believe the neo-nazi shit of a bunch of grown-ups.
Some of the beatings (and even shootings) are done at random metro
stations at random hours, but the huge majority are pre-planned
massacres on poor immigrant communities and lots of them after
football matches. We did not read one single attack on a tourist.
I am a white peruvian, but to those skins everything but arian
or slav is black.
Our experience in Moscow was totally different however. Everywhere
we went there was someone darker, more asian or more arab than
us. It is a 5 millions people city, it is damn cosmopolitan!!
We never saw any kind of harassment. I don't know what happened.
We were expecting hell, really. In fact, the only rude commentary
I received was from a stoned black guy at a disco. Neverthleles,
Russian metropolies have a problem which foreign embassies have
pin-pointed several times, but the russian government dismisss
it as hooligans. One article read a declaration from a gov. official
saying: "Boys will be boys". What a pity.
Having met no harassment at all in Moscow, we felt very relaxed
in St. Petersburg, and we had 10 times more fun.
Nevertheless, policemen are on the look for dark/arab people for
the chechen rebel threat, and if you look arab like me, you'll
have to loose some minutes showing your passport to officers.
Bear this in mind, that if poeple are suspicious of foreigns is
because chechens and mid-east rebels have represented a threat
to them in the past. The most extraordinary thing was when we
went to MetroClub the women at the door noticed we were foreigners
and asked where we were from. We said "Peru" and she
either understood that, or "Beirut", and said "Oh
no, terrorists. Please leave". You must also understand that
russian youth dress up for everything like there's no tomorrow
and we looked just like we were, backpackers who hadn't worn clean
clothes in a week.
However, the last night before leaving for Helsinki, we spoke
to latin people at a club, who said they knew people who had had
their brains smashed by skins. When we asked them what you could
do to prevent a skin-head attack, they just said "its a question
of luck".
I guess we had real good luck, then.
DRINKING: Yes, they drink a lot. Does it bother you?? Just tag
along and drink, drink and drink. It seems that if you are russian
and you want to get from point A to point B, you do it with a
beer in your hand. Vodka is getting out of fashion it seems, and
beer is quite cheap and its legal to drink it any where you want.
I really hope this was helpful. Head to Russia for the time of
your life, but do not expect river-side cafàs or Italy,
expect a plush kingdom that lived communism for 74 years and is
not experiencing one of the most fierest capitalist economies
histories has seen. And the most beautiful women too."
Answer: Thanks a lot! We could make a whole new
page out of this comment! Very helpful and interesting.
Comment
(10/05/03): "Hi all,
Gratz to all the team of this website looking very pro and intelligent
contributor.
It's so great that it help me greatly to me make a round trip
in Moscow to meet russian friends, just have to wait this damn
visa...
I just miss more information about "bad places" to avoid
in Moscow. Yourself said :
"keep away from the "bad" places"...
I open a topic to discuss it in Lounge Forum Index -> Moscow
with title "what
bad place to avoid in Moscow, especially if look asian "
Because I am French, living in Paris, but looking asian because
mummy..."
Comment (14/05/03): " It is nice to get
so many different perspectives on one site! I wanted to give credit
to Russian men/boys. So maybe they are a little spoiled, but they
make wonderful lovers! 4 years ago I met a Russian student at
the university I attended . I can say I have never ever been treated
so well by anyone. I am an American girl and very much in love
with a gorgeous Russian man. I am taking my second trip to Moscow
this summer to attend MGU, and of course, to be closer to mine
; ) And about TATU, when I was in Russia the summer of 2001 I
started liking them so much that I brought back the cd with me.
I could have been swayed by the fact that they were on the radio
3 times and hour, but I still think they deserve props."
Comment (21/05/03): "Russia is "a riddle
wrapped in mystery inside an enigma"
Winston Churchill"
Comment (10/06/03): "Great
& varied website. You give a good flavour of what Russia is
like.
I have some personal experiences from visiting Russia and would
like to add to the discussions on this page.
I am Scottish and have been to Russia four times. The first time
I travelled from Moscow to Beijing with a three day stop in Irkutsk
(July 1999). The train was a fabulous experience, I would like
to do it again in winter. During my visit to Irkutsk, I had a
city tour during which I was the only tourist. Initially I was
teased by the tourist guide for travelling on my own. To cut a
long story short and after much travelling back & forth, we
got married and have just had our first child here in Glasgow.
Anyway, enough the personal stuff. Here are some of my experiences
DANGERS & ANNOYANCES
I have seen two incidents.
1) While walking in the Arbat, there was a fight between some
young guys. One was being beaten up by a group of others. People
were looking on in disgust, there were no police about. Then one
older well-built guy in a telnyashka saw what was going on and
single handedly started fighting all the attacking group, this
guy's intention seemed to be to give the guys a taste of their
own medicine. They all offered no resistance, it was amazing to
see.
The second incident was in Irkutsk, Natasha & I were the only
customers in a pub early one evening. Suddenly about six men entered
with balaclavas and automatic weapons. There was no indication
if they were police or mafia. Natasha cooly led me to the door
and we were let out. She thought they were police checking for
illegal workers.
Having said all of the above, I usually feel safe in Russia. It
is certainly no worse than many cities in Europe.
RACISM
I have no experience of any racism in Russia. I think like most
countries a small minority can grab a lot of headlines and distort
the truth. For example, I dont think Scotland is a racist country
but there have been a number of well-publicised racist incidents.
Is Russia any better or worse? Who knows?
BANYA(SAUNA)
MY father-in-law treated me to a sauna at the dacha last year.
It was 110 Centigrade complete with beriozka twigs for the skin.
A hat was necessary if you wanted to stand up (the water seemed
to boil from your head if you did). By god, it felt wonderful
when you came out.
FOOD
As most people who have visited Russia may agree, the food that
you receive at a Russian home is likely to be much better that
any restaurant. My mother-in-law says she spends 70 % of her salary
on food. Yet they have a dacha and two cars ('it is the Russian
way to manage this'). They dislike very much the stereotypical
New Russians, I dont know enough to comment but they are good
and honest people. I do like your comment that the babooshkas
are the soul of Russia.
Certainly if anyone is travelling on the train, buy food from
the babooshkas at the stations. If you dont speak russian, just
pick the food you want and give the woman some money, you will
not be ripped off.
I applaud that you are trying to give a balanced view of Russia.
There is certainly a lot of bad press in the West. I beleive this
is a legacy of the Cold War. I personally have no problem going
back there time and time again and would encourage people who
are thinking of visiting to do it. It may be difficult and frustrating
at times but most of the time you will be entertained and learn
a different way of life.
Good luck with this site."
Comment (10/06/03): "I have immensely enjoyed reading
your website. I do have a few cultural questions. I am male, and
am involved in a homosexual relationship with a male Russian (and
who said Russian men weren't hot??). How do average Russians view
homosexuality? My partner assures me that when we visit, we won't
have any problems. I am still a bit apprehensive. What are your
thoughts on this?"
Answer: Your partner is right saying that you
won't have any problems. Majority of people, especially younger
generation and people who live in big cities don't have anything
against homosexuality (at least, it looks like it). You may have
problems if you are overtly expressing your relationship in front
of old people, or in small towns or villages, or just in front
of drunk or bully people who just need troubles to find. Mostly,
it has to do with the fact that Russian society is still quite
conservative, but it's changing fast.
Besides, there's quite a good gay scene in Moscow and St. Petersburg.
Comment (25/06/03): "To the guy who had
problems with traffic (dangerous): try walking under the street
where pedestrians are supposed to go...Or you will get killed.
Have you ever walked across I5 in downtown Los Angeles at rush
hour? By the way, my experience in Moscow was great without any
threat of violence, or any racism. I am still with my wife who
I met there. "
Comment (1/7/03):
"what about the KGB do you need to worry about them are they
friendly?" and "Is it true about the KGB being really
hardcore people like highly trained fighters and such...the kind
of people you would NEVER want to mess with?"
Answer: Ok, we have your IP address logged and
will report it to KGB...
:-))) Seriously, you don't have to worry about KGB guys (now it's
called FSB, by the way). As a tourist, you won't ever have to
deal with them, unless you are a spy or having a business in Russia
that is important for national interests... The guys are doing
exactly what they are supposed to do: federal security bureau.
But yes, KGB are hardcore and intelligent.
Comment (7/7/03): "I have been to Moscow
a few weeks ago, liked it enough, that now I am trying to move
back there from New York of all places. I understand that the
infrustructure and services there may not be up to the par with
US standards that I've so gotten used to after 10 years in US,
but after all I am Russian and can put up with that."
Comment
(29/7/03): "I wish to visit Russia this september
and I would like to know how much, in a budget way, would I spend
for two weeks, including Hostels, food, etc.
There will be good music and/or art festivals at september?
There are different fares at Trans-siberian rail? Which is the
cheapest?"
Answer: If you are ok with the most budget options (like
living in a dorm hostel room, cooking by yourself, and not spending
too much on parties, I would count about $25 US per day, plus
transportation, which is $300 for a return flight to moscow from
europe and about $70-$200 for one-way trans-siberian to Irkutsk.
As for music / art festivals, there's an Art Festival Art-Klyazma
on 5, 6 September, then there's a night contemporary art tour
by bus on the night from 19 to 20 September starting from Architecture
museum (showing you all contemporary galleries in moscow, starts
at 22.00, metro Arbatskaya), and then there's Blur playing on
24th September in Gorbushka (metro Bagrationovskaya), also visit
Private Collections Museum (which is near Pushkinsky museum, metro
Kropotkinskaya). There are a lot of other interesting events.
Comments (30/7/03):
"Russia is gradually emerging and I hope one day many those
who immigrated from USSR will go back to Russia especially from
USA(if russian goverment accepts them), because many thought the
the USA was the best country in the world. But in reality it's
total bullshit(food, television, culture, traditions, people),
the worst one in Western world. It's never been and never will
be. "
Answer: Yeah, Russia is becoming the new hotspot
;-)
Comment (20/08/03): "I
am going to Moscow for the first time next week and very much
looking forward to it. However, the real purpose of this post
is to lavish praise on this website....INCREDIBLE! It has enough
information to put every guidebook out of business. Your efforts
are really appreciated, believe me."
Answer: Ok, will be done, get ready, Lonely Planet,
Rough Guide, Eyewitness and others... WayToRussia.Net is coming!!!
By the way, there's a vote in our Talk Lounge forum, the question
is whether or not you would donate some amount to WayToRussia.net
if you were given an opportunity... You can vote
here.
Questions
(1/9/03): " I feel the accidental visit to your
website was rewarding. Even though it said more about Moscow and
St. Petersburgh, it was enough to have a broken view of Russia.
I am an Indian student who is about to undertake a medical course
(6 years) in Volgograd. I would been happy to know your view on
some of the following queries.
1) Is it true that in order to be safe, you have to stay away
from the Russian girls in the campus/Elsewhere?
2) Learning that there is a bit of Racism, will it subside as
years go by?
3) How advanced is Volgograd? Does it have discos or pubs?
4) Is it safe for the Indians to go to the Discos or pubs?
5) In student life will the Russian students accept the Indian
students as friends?
However I think with a bit of adjustment everything will be right
.I would really count on your opinion considering the reputation
of your website
Thank you "
Answers:
1) No, you should enjoy them.
2) Russians don't like Chechenians only (unfortunately), because
of the war and stuff. I hope it will subside soon... Otherwise,
there are no specific "nationality preferences". Besides,
as I was told by an old Indian man in Himalayas (next to the holy
Ganges source): "India and Russia are big friends".
And I really think so!
I would just recommend something. There are still many people
with prejudices, especially when they see dark skin color, they
have an automated reflex and start thinkning about Chechenians.
Just try not to meet such people and evade all kind of communication.
If anybody bullies or offends you act as if nothing is happening,
don't get involved, it's safer.
3) Never been there, sorry. But heard there are some bars and
discos, however don't hope for anything extra good, just standard
dance music and a lot of wanna-be-cool guys with girlfriends.
4) Depends which. Stay away from the ones I said about above.
5) Yes, young people are open. Look, I was driving next to Patris
Lulumba university in moscow a few days ago -- that's the place
where there are many students from India, Africa etc. And I was
amazed how peaceful and nice it looked, and there are people of
different origins, they all walked together, mixed, laughed, had
nice time.... So, it's gonna be ok.
Comments (3/09/03): "I love Moscow but to call it
safe, I hardly think so. For young women it is unsafe to be alone,
both during the day and especially at night. I have visited twice
and both times I have had incidents, maybe I am unlucky, or just
naive. I just advise single women to keep there head down and
don't talk to anyone. unlucky American girl"
Answer: I'm sorry, but if you act like you advise,
you will look like a victim and attract problems like bees. Keep
your head up, be open-minded, city-wise and careful -- something
useful in any city, not only Moscow.
Comment (19/09/03):
"I am sorry to get back to so many issues. First,
I give my props to the site. Excellent job. I will definitely
use the services because I have clients in Russia and am there
all the time.
People. Come on with the racism crap! Don't try to inject your
understanding of racism into what is going on in Russia. Fellow
Americans, you know better than I that all that phony political
corectness destroys the fabric of our society. I pray to God we
all were not turned into politicians. Moreover with all due love,
behind the back you, liberals and conservatives, are sickeningly
racist.:))) Russians are just too blatant and honest, but they
say outloud what you say in your bedrooms. I just want to see
your daughters give birth to a black child. The Russian society
is one of great extremes and it has not been exposed to the outside
world to the same degree. Everything will come to its places in
due time and Russians will be exposed to the minorities and cultures.
Intolerance is a feature of poor countries. Tolerance is luxury
that, believe me, will be discarded by you if your way of living
is endangered. On the other hand, I can tell with great certitude
that Russians would never enslave people for financial profit.
Russians as a people are incapable of denying freedom to stuff
their wallets, to gas people because these people are perceived
"inferior." Russians are honest, crude, but incredibly
like children dedicated to the betterment of the world. They are
very naive and romantic, although they pretend being very tough
and knowlegeable. They are a nation of children with everything
that is good and bad about it: crudeness, brutal honesty, openness,
unjustified belief in human goodness, purity of heart, leaving
evertyhing to chance ("avos' "); they are so so unpragmatic
and uncalculated, yet prone to corruption, attracted to "shiny
things" and silly ideals. I love Russian people for all of
that, for their unspoiled openness and unqualified loyalty and
sacrifice that they are capable of. I can not but invite you to
see this society, this melting pot of phenomenal extremes and
feel the pain and the poetry of its people. Don't ever apply your
prejudices, phobias concepts of racism, good, evil to a culture
you know nothing about. It's simply ignorant and, of course, RACIST."
Answer: I love this comment! I think it will
be interesting for you (and all others!) to read our new Russian
People section.
Comment (3/10/03): "I will be traveling extensively this
winter and I wasn't sure if I wanted to include Russia in my
travels.After
reading this website, I am definitely going. Good mix of positive
and negative aspects of the country here which makes it very
credible. Thanks! "
Comment (12/10/03): "Just a simple question: what is a "dreamhouse" for
a Russian? I'm an architect and I'd like to know which are your
desires in the way of living."
Answer: You should definitely post this question
in our Russian
People section. I think that mostly it's important
for Russian people to have all the facilities (like hot water,
heating, electricity, telephone) work really well, live in a
kind of cottage but not too far from a city, have a few rooms,
spacious living room, fancy furniture, maybe a garden outside,
but it's not too important. And Russians like to have things
like American pool and fitness equipment in their house, so a
spacious room for activities would also be great.
Comment (17/10/03): "In order for your account of Russian history
to be credible, I would encourage you to acknowledge that there
was much persecution of the Jews in Russia in the 1800's, during
the pogroms. By discussing this openly and giving it some historical
context, you would build a connection to Jews around the world
whose ancestors fled Russia during this time, and who might be
interested in visiting the towns from which they came. I certainly
would feel more invited if you acknowledged that this happened!"
Comment (28/10/03): "Russia is the best country of the world!
If somebody is not sure, it's his own problems, because it is
so!"
Comment (22/12/03): "I've always been really interested in russian
culture, litterature, traditions etc. so a few years ago, after
I finished college, I chose to begin Russian Studies at the university
of Ottawa. The more I studied it, the more I loved that wonderful
country so I naturally wanted to go there. However, when I told
this to my family and friends, who are all, as far as I know,
educated and comprehensive people, they completely freaked out.
They all warned me not to go there and they kept saying that
it was an incredibly dangerous place, especially for foreigners
and women, since the mafia is everywhere and all russian men
are rapists. I was very shocked to hear such stupid things from
people I loved but I also could not bring myself to believe that
they were entirely wrong. I looked for information everywhere
I could and to my surprise, it confirmed what they said so I
eventually let go of my life long dream. At that point of my
life I felt very depressed and I kept thinking that I had thrown
away years on something that I could never fully experience.
Then one day, somebody told me about your site. I had very little
hope left, but I came anyway and it changed my life. It was serious
and realist but positive all the same! And there were so many
good comments about russian and american people who thought you
had got the right picture! I am now happily preparing a trip
to moscow and that's all thanks to you. There is a lot of people
in Europe and America who are fascinated by Russia but meanwhile
the medias are encouraging stereotypes. Open-minded people like
you make a difference. I cannot thank you enough. I also have
a question : is it true thet life is very expensive in Moscow?"
Answer: Thank you very very much. I
was very happy to read this message, I really hope you'll have
nice time in Moscow.
Life in Moscow is not too expensive, but not too cheap. You can
look at the average prices at Practicalities
/ Money section, but I can say that it's possible to live
for $200 per month OK, without accommodation and clothes though.
Also, I've just launched a new project for those, who want to
find a room mate in Russia - you can use it to find a home-stay
and to save money on accommodation too - it's FlatMates.Ru
Comment (31/12/03): "I read with great interest the wide variety
of comments posted here. It would be fair to say that there is
a bit of truth in all of them, yet there is no way anyone can
paint a perfect picture of Russia in all its richness and glory
with mere words. I can draw a parallel with trying to explain
what sugar is to someone who has never experienced it. You can
go on and on about it all day but still wouldnt be able to explain
it as well as just giving them a spoonful to taste. Russia must
be tasted to really understand it. I was lucky to have spent
7 of the best years of my life there as a student. I lived in
Moscow but also went around enough to experience village and
small town life, mingled with the youth, the businessmen, the
medical professionals, diplomats, politicians, mafiosi, babushki
and dedushki, orphaned street kids,policemen, armymen, cosmonauts...just
about every layer of society. I have also lived in several countries
long enough to appreciate the difference in Russian culture when
compared to the Indian, Arabic and American ones. It wouldnt
be wrong to say that Russia has found a special place in my heart.
Though Indian by birth, the years in Russia have impacted every
facet of my life so much that I consider myself to be part Russian
in spirit. Russia has a way of growing on you. I speak the language
pretty fluently and love my black bread and vodka. My New Years
feast will be a typical Russian fare this year. I guess you should
figure out from my enthusiasm for all things Russian that I love
the country and its people very much. If Russia were such a poor
devestated country filled with drunks and racists, I would hardly
have felt the way I do. Believe me when I tell you that while
there is much room for improvement and much to be fixed, there
is also much much more that is right. Russians are friendly,
forthright(without the kind of social mask that we see so much
of here in the US, extremely hospitable and generous, fair-minded,
honest,tough with an indominable spirit. If you saw the vastness
of Russia and its wide open spaces and natural beauty, you would
understand where the Russian spirit draws its strength from.
The Russian psyche may be an enigma to many, but that is only
because they never took the time to try to understand it. Sure
there are some fringe elements- neo-nazis, who dont understand
the absurd irony of their actions, but on the whole Russia is
not any more or less racist than any other country...including
India, the US or UK, the Arabic or African countries. So please
lay off from badmouthing the Russians. They deserve better."
Comment (10/02/04): "I am a Northern Californian of Filipino
descent who traveled to Russia (Petersburg and Kazan) last month.
Myth: COLD WINTER? Chicago and Boston on a wet winter storm felt
much colder.
Myth: DANGEROUS?
I felt more danger in the residential areas of Paris.
Myth:
TRAVELING A HASSLE? Travel is more difficult
in the US. I did not have any problems (other than trying to
purchase a plane ticket to Kazan from Petersburg) traveling
into and within Russia. But JFK airport was a nightmare! As
well as
traveling to and from LAX. Long lines, paranoia, and a security
state in Russia? Guess what, this is post-9/11 US, not today's
Russia.
Myth: RACISM? Seems like the same all over the world.
Cosmopolitan cities like Moscow, Petersburg, San Francisco,
and New York are more accepting of other races and foreigners
than
small towns.
Myth: BOMBINGS AND VIOLENCE? Not much different
than 9/11 in New York and the LA race riots.
Myth: POOR COUNTRY? I saw some of the best works for art in
the Hermitage and the most beautiful metros. Everyone has a
mobile
phone AND clear reception everywhere unlike California.
And the myth that motivated me to come to Russia, other than
my intellectual curiousity: THE WOMEN. Yes, many of the women
I saw, young and middle aged, were beautiful! The club scene
was fun, young gorgeous women! But they certainly were more
interested in partying. Got many friendly smiles but saw no
motivation to
overcome the language barrier. For dating, it's more fun to
go where you speak the language. But if you are looking for
a life
partner, I found a gorgeous, intelligent, kind, humble and
caring woman who can cook the best food! And with flights costing
$500
round trip, nice flats for less than $100/night, good food
for $5 or less, friendly people, and was not required to walk
nearly
naked through every airport security gate, it was a great vacation
for someone from the beautiful but insanely expensive San Francisco
Bay Area! "
Comment (24/02/04): "I'm really interested in russian culture, litterature, traditions
etc.And sometimes I think to be alone to have this love of all from Russia. On
my point of view, people from western countries use to have a negative and narrow-minded
attitude. Because the propaganda conveyed by the mass-media are mistakes and
a policy in order not to see one more time Russia as a powerful country. It's
true Russia has a lot of problems to solve because of its "communism" past.That's
right you can see in Russia a wide social gap between rich and poor. But on the
other hand cos of the revival of the economy the life ther is better and better.
It seems to be slow because to make laws and to change one society is long ;
Russia is about 145 millions of inhabitants (5millions in Petersburg and 9 millions
in Moscow).
About alcoholism, I think Russians are not more than other countries. So it's
a shame when you read in a French encyclopedia : The majority of russian are
alcoholic that's why nearly 70% of children born have brain problems... this
analysis is nearly racist and that writer forgot that liquor in Russian litterature
exist since a lot of centuries, and instead of alcohol Russians have a lot of
great writers, composers, scientists,...
In term of racism, when I went to Russia a couple of year ago with my boyfriend
(a black guy) maybe we were lucky but russians were kind, helpful, a great sense
of the hospitality. So I don't think they are racist. They may be curious because
black people are uncommon there. Militia sometimes ask him to verify his passport
(me not because I look like a standard russian maybe) but they weren't agressive.
I can prove also that Russian are not racist because one of the famous and adored
russian writer Pushkin is a half-blood man (his grandfather was ethiopian and
also a general in the Peter the Great's army). And nowadays, you have only to
switch on the TV to see black russians or black foreigners (look at the TV show
http://www.1tv.ru/fabrika/ you will see). You can see also young students from
Afrika in the former Lumumba University..."
Comment (7/3/04): "I came across this site by complete accident, and am glad
to have done so, this site is awsome!! truly great job guys,
and about Moscow being dangerous, im 19, live in the North East of England, and
where i live is ALOT more dangerous AND racist, Moscow was a great place, loved
it, and the Russian people were really nice, and dont get me started on the women!!
as for your question on British people drinking beer all the time, the sad truth
is, yes, most do drink WAY too much beer
thanks again for the great site, well done"
Answer: Hi mate, it's great you loved Moscow. As for your comment
about England being a dangerous place, I have a story. When I was 14 I went to
England for some kind of English language practice program. I lived in Broadstairs,
which is near Ramsgate, in South-East. So, I was there and I thought because
I
come
from
Russia (and I had this belief that Russia was a dangerous place - it was beginning
of 90s),
so,
I
thought
in
England I don't have to be afraid of anything, because Russia is rough and England
is mild.
But
after a while I
had
a
chance
to
meet a few rough guys (even in 14) who wanted to take my money in a city park
there and were threatening me with metal sticks (I walked away),
another time, in Edinburgh, there were two skinheads who told us something not
nice, and when we wanted to "teach" them that they should be nice to strangers,
they
took out their knives and looked very eager for action, so me and my friend
retreated. After this, I never thought anymore that I was cool, because Russia
is so rough,
and I also thought that England is quite a rough place as well. :-)
By the way,
could you tell
me what was this accident that brought you to the site?
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